Do they always devalue you first?
Do they always devalue you first?
Do they always devalue you first? When I started uncovering the lies, I tried to break it off with him.... or at least I thought I would let him know how much his lies hurt me, in hopes that he would not do it again. With each lie, I have become more distant and he knows this. I stopped feeding his ego and therefore I have felt him slowly pull away. (He didn't call as much, etc.) Every once in awhile when we must talk (we work together) he will tell me he misses me. But, he has stopped calling, texting, etc. To this day, he has never devalued me - at least not to my face. Since he has never been mean, it makes it harder to realize he is a N. He told me just last week, no more lies as I know it hurts you. I have told him that he is not the same and I don't think we could go back. When we talk, he acts strange, but still has never raised his voice. And since I have been distancing myself from him, does that make me the N??? Do all Narcs show their anger toward you when you try to tell them that it is over and you can't go back?
How could I
How could I
Funny you should mention
"Are we talking about the same guy"
Just dicarded
Timtam, you will keep waiting!
My N would rage and throw
In a word, yes
How Could I, he is
spinning
Thanks Spinning!
Stopping Before It Starts
I understand this.. mr. N was
It is there v subtle but yes it is there
How could I
Idealize devalue discard
Liar, Liar
Thanks Agnes
And again
how could i
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