Do Narc/BPD

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#1 Sep 6 - 6PM
needing2know
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Do Narc/BPD

I have read many posts about our ex being jealous of our accomplishments they don't like to see people happy or succeed , So if they found out you started dating again would they hate it? I was told that people with BPD always think you belong to them are Narc the same way?

Sep 6 - 9PM
Susan32
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He treated me like property...

The ex-Psych prof&I didn't have a sexual relationship, but sex&procreation would've sealed the deal of making me his "property." It weirded out his students when he spoke jealously in class of my casual dates, as if he were my boyfriend... when I wasn't. He acted as if we were a couple, when we weren't. He was livid when an ex-BOYFRIEND of his (a male professor, openly gay) was going around with his new hot Asian boyfriend. He was still furious at this prof, tho they were no longer a couple.
Sep 6 - 8PM
Sparrow
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Extremely

Mine was................he would say all the time "I don't have a jealous bone in my body" but boy, oh boy, was he jealous. He would be enraged with the mere mention of a man. Would ask if I had sex with them etc..........not jealous, my ass!
Sep 6 - 7PM
Hunter
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Jealous? Yes, they are

Jealous? Yes, they are superior. The reality they want you feel their Hell They suffer from insecurity they act out to project the opposite! Their goal is to hurt the victim as they hurt. You are an object for them to play with! Once they are bored with you they put you away in the closet until they need something to do. Like play with you again. Do you always belong to them? In a way the answer is yes, you will always be a supply source! It's up to you to unload the batteries, NC Hunter
Sep 6 - 8PM (Reply to #8)
needing2know
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This energizer bunnies

This energizer bunnies batteries died and they are not rechargeable! lol
Sep 6 - 7PM
Caligirl
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Yes, I've heard seeing you as their property

Is the same with N's. I don't think my ExN would give a flying flip to know I dated someone though. He might be a little jealous, natural, but he wouldn't show it, unless I gave details. He doesn't love me and it's done. I'm N/C, and so it's not an issue.
Sep 6 - 7PM (Reply to #2)
needing2know
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I am also NC and will stay

I am also NC and will stay that way. I just read so many different things
Sep 6 - 8PM (Reply to #3)
Caligirl
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Yep, there's so much out there

I just remembered something...remember we're toasters. Lol. Awesome on N/C! :)
Sep 6 - 8PM (Reply to #4)
needing2know
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Caligirl

Wouldn't they be the toasters , they are the ones who do all the POPPING UP LMAO! And thank you on the NC
Sep 6 - 8PM (Reply to #5)
Caligirl
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Needing to know

They're something. F*CK UPS for sure!! Lol! ;)
Sep 6 - 9PM (Reply to #6)
needing2know
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i would like to take them all

i would like to take them all and place them in the game of WACKAMOLE!!!!