The Disordered one's cycles of abuse
The Disordered one's cycles of abuse
I have read Scoop saying that the disordered one goes in cycles, 3-6 months.
What does this mean? I'm pretty up on my disordered one stuff, but what does this cycling mean and why was a poll done about it here?
Secondly, How many of you here were abused by your disordered shortly after he sealed the deal with you in marriage or moving in together?
I'm so struggling. I'm really pissed about it too. I keep thinking he's so happy with new rich wife, etc. These thoughts have really wreaked havoc with my recovery this last week. It's probably the phone calls, although they have now stopped.
I never married nor lived with mine. I was the OW portion, but maybe more than anything else. Is it true that they don't abuse if they marry you and want something from you? I can't keep cycling about this. I really honestly thought the phone calls weren't bothering me. This isn't true. They are. I'm going to change my phone number, but can't for next two weeks, as it's going to cost me.
I need encouragement. To know that what he did to me, wasn't just to me. I know this is going to sound very odd, but I almost with the phone calls WERE him because then I'd know for sure, that even in his new marriage, he's still a nutcase. Please understand. I don't want him back, and I don't want to know anything about what's going on, but these thoughts of "his happiness" are truly killing me.
SOMEONE KICK MY ASS PLEASE! Thank you :)But do it by sharing your story. Do they change with right woman? If he didn't love her, and wasn't enjoying her, he wouldn't have married her? UGH THIS IS DRIVING ME NUTS!!!
About cycling and mini-cycling
The cycle
movingforward
7 months....that is the
I can confirm this cycle
I believe it gets worse with
That means...
Susan
From what I've read...
Hi Sunafterrain, well, I can
Sunafterrain - I felt that I missed out on fulfilling my N
t2
cycling
His cycles were the same...
My bday is tomorrow and my N
oh yeah!
FG
Thanks. I expected this to
mine too
cycles
sunafterrain
Yes! This is what I touched on in my post!
I repectfully don't agree with everything Narcissist Sam says...
When abuse becomes "worse"
Their "possession" in marriage.
Layla
Dehumanizing
Nutcase
Ally
Ally,