Discarded again

11 posts / 0 new
Last post
#1 Aug 17 - 10PM
Littleone
Littleone's picture

Discarded again

Soo... The n wanted to be friends- don't worry I am NOT going there.

But led the n to believe that I would be friends after property settlement Is sorted.

I've tried to negotiate with the n in regards to money but it's pretty clear he wants to give me next to nothing.

So I text this to him within a negotiation text-

It's such a shame that you seem quite happy to leave me and j (our one year old son) with nothing.

He text back-
In no way do I want to leave j with nothing.

So... It's pretty clear to me that he would be more than happy for me to have nothing, be dead or homeless.

Nice

Who the fuck does he think he is to believe that I am worth nothing.
And does he honestly think I base my self worth on what he thinks? Actually scrap that- because that's exactly what I used to do.

I'm not the same person I was then. I determine what I'm worth and it's not nothing.

Fuck negotiating I'm going to my lawyer TODAY.

Suck my dick you little n bitch.

(I'm a girl haha)

Aug 22 - 11PM
HollyAnderson
HollyAnderson's picture

www.getrevengeonyourex.com

www.getrevengeonyourex.com
Aug 22 - 11PM
Susan32
Susan32's picture

Make him feel WORTHLESS!!!

That's your job! He's such a coward, you have to move so much into his head that HE feels that you want him crushed, worthless, suicidal. You are ENTITLED here!!! When I dealt with the ex-Psych prof, in the end, I was giving him narcissistic injuries--and in the final go-round, INTENTIONALLY. If he starts begging for mercy, DO NOT STOP. SHOW NO MERCY, CRY NO TEARS. Make him feel that you're moving on, and he'll just have to be pulverized in the process. He's the egg that must be broken so that the omelet can be made. That's the only way to deal with bullies. Be merciless. Be cruel. And relish the process. You are NOT worthless. He IS and MUST be made to feel that way!!! Unless he's crying&begging for mercy, he's nothing.
Aug 18 - 5AM
Qing Yuan
Qing Yuan's picture

Sorry to hear this

These gusy are monsters who are here to get a free ride... My narc also has left me with debts and finacial ciommitments. some of which he has to honour becuse he would loose face but most of which he denies. we have a 1000 over draft on a joint account, which he maintains he has already given me me money for. He calculated that he gave the me though he only gave the money needed to pay the mortgae. I proved it to him but he still refuses to help me to pay it off. the accoutn cannot be moved form his name until it is paid off and yet he still send me mesages asking meto take his nameo fthe account..,they will give you what THEY THINK is enough and not a penny over that. So it takes time and energy to really be free of the narc. Keep concentraing on you and your healing. Thats all you can do until you are truly sepertae peopel again. I have a mortgae and debts with my narc but watch this space. Cos we can grow like beautiful flowers out of the bull crap they leave behind. x
Aug 18 - 2AM
Done sourcing
Done sourcing's picture

Can I tell my exwn "eat my

Can I tell my exwn "eat my pussy you little bastard"? ROFL regarding your post. Hire an attorney, and know that assclown will squirm knowing he can't manipulate an attorney like he thinks he can play you! When he calls, tell him to call your attorney. It will cost him 300 an hour to communicate with attorneys, lol. I'm assuming you are broke and he has the money. ds
Aug 18 - 12AM
ifinallygotit
ifinallygotit's picture

sorry

My ex N abandoned his kids but now that he is older he is reconnecting with them and they idolize him!!! Narcs like their kids, its an ego thing for them - mine could care less about the mothers of his kids. He never spoke of them to me for 12 years! Even the one suing him! they can just block people out - its scary...
Aug 17 - 10PM
Sparrow
Sparrow's picture

The he'll with negotiating.

The he'll with negotiating. Let the courts decide.............. I read some pretty serious advice once regarding court and narcs.........never look them in the eye while at court, never. Good luck!
Aug 17 - 10PM
58 and going strong
58 and going strong's picture

Littleone, I'm with you!

Littleone, I'm with you! Let's go fight, but let's do it smart so we get what is ours!
Aug 17 - 10PM
Hunter
Hunter's picture

Wahooooooooooo!

Wahooooooooooo!
Aug 17 - 10PM
freaked
freaked's picture

a Psychological War in going on right now

Littleone, please read my post about Vulcans. I am beginning to believe this is all out war. and a surreptitios war too. These narcs/psychopaths are deliberately marrying us earthlings and impregnating us...and then deserting us without a penny. My NH is openly telling people that he will divorce me and make sure I am left with no finances...and that he would provide just enough money to our son for completing his education. There is something going on in this world. I am glad we all found each other here on Lisa's site. We must help one another to Understand the Psychological Warfare that is going on... We must help one another here to stay strong..in the face of this blitzkrieg. WE MUST USE OUR PERSONAL STRENGTH AS THE ULTIMATE AMMO
Aug 17 - 10PM (Reply to #2)
Littleone
Littleone's picture

I'll check it out :)

I'll check it out :)