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The diamond earrings.

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#1 Oct 13 - 11PM
Unfreakinreal
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The diamond earrings.

THE FUCKING DIAMOND EARRINGS!

First of all, I am not a diamond earring kind of girl.

I would much rather have tickets to Metallica or a couple new hoodies. Hell, my car needs brakes and tires.

Long story short, rewind a few months back. Another D&D. This one ending in "I can really see myself coming back to you. I even thought about having to ask the guy at the jewelry store if I could return the diamond earrings I would buy for you because I don't think you would even accept them. I am sorry for everything, I have to go now, I am so sorry. Bye."

Fast forward to this evening. Go to the car to get my son's school bag. Note on the car.

"I have something for you if you want it, I finally found a store that would let me return them if I needed to. It's just a thank you for everything you did for me. I am sorry for everything. I hope you take my gesture as it is intended."

Dude. Seriously. Fuck off.

You want to thank me? STAY THE HELL AWAY FROM ME.

The only thing I can come up with is that I am the only one that was able to really make him believe that his cock was incredible when it wasn't.

Yes, my friends, they are that shallow.

The suck fest continues...

Pathetic loser.

Diamond earrings.

My son's medication is $164 a month and isn't covered by insurance. I am a single mother with a mortgage. Like I really need diamond earrings.

You know what pisses me off?

They never hear you when you speak.

He sure as fuck hears me when I don't.

Message received now, Chief?

Oct 14 - 12PM
Hunter
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Wow!! Now you're talking my

Wow!! Now you're talking my language!! Looove it!! Seriously, crumbs .. The earings don't exisit .. Tell him to pierce his dick with them .. A donation to the cause., Hunter
Oct 14 - 11AM
Froglegs
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Too bad he didn't leave them

Too bad he didn't leave them on your car so you could sell/pawn them. >:)
Oct 14 - 8AM
Unfreakinreal
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I am more amused than anything.

Anyone that knows me, knows what a useless gift it is, for me anyway. Eventually he will just go away. Honestly, the hoovering doesn't even bother me anymore. I couldn't bring myself to be anywhere near him for any reason. It's all bullshit, and it wasn't an apology of any kind. Had it rained a little harder, I never would have seen the note, he didn't have enough sense to put it in a plastic bag. It's all so stupid and pointless. Xoxo
Oct 14 - 1PM (Reply to #6)
Tigerlily
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A Dead Giveaway

is that he found a shop he can "return them to if he needs to". That means, if the bait and his manipulative tactics fail to hook you. It`s VERY insulting. I have a number of VERY imaginative ideas what you could tell him to do with the earrings, but NC speaks louder than words. Just ignore him, it`s a bribe. They`ll try anything. Love Tigerlily
Oct 14 - 1AM
TNR1
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Ah...but it was never about what you needed or wanted anyways...

Didn't you realize that you signed up to live in Narcville for a while (perhaps you didn't read the fine print as he was love bombing you in the beginning). In Narcville the Narc decides the gifts. Who knows...perhaps he's been fantasizing about you in those earring as he's been polishing off his knob. Regardless it isn't a gift..you know it...I know it...it's a carrot with a rather long string attached. It's a way for him to wiggle his way back in. It reminds me of a scene from a horror movie where a victim innocently grabs something and it sets off a trap. That is how I view your ex Narcs diamond offer. It's a trap. Good of you to catch onto it. You definately do not want to go back to Narcville. HUGS.
Oct 14 - 12AM
ifinallygotit
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I would be shocked by this type of gift! off topic but...

I got no gifts for 10 years except free sports clothes that someone else gave him which he still gave me reluctantly! I would say he wants something - this is not a sincere thank you for sure
Oct 14 - 12AM
freaked
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UFR, just forget that creature

just let it go UFR. They are disordered. don't bother saying anything to that narc. it will be a waste of your energy. just forget him..there really is no 2nd option. for any of us here at the forum. some of us are caged in the marriage ties, have to worry about our children's well being and safety.. some are gf/bf, some ow/om...whatever the r/s may be, it is doomed. if it is a loose bond, then just chuck the memory into the trash can.. it is the only way to regaining sanity and peace. Hope my post helps you dear..know that you are not alone...but in a battle with a narc we are forced to fight alone..and this one fight we can win only when we discard the memory of the hurt, cheating, violence, abuse, double crossings...
Oct 14 - 12AM
Sea
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Its never about us ever. Our

Its never about us ever. Our needs never met. Its always about them. I got things that i dont want and dont need as well. Sad but true. Let it go hugs!! They dont get it never will cos they are so bloody disordered.