Desperate and upset
Desperate and upset
Hi. This is my first time posting. As you can see from my name, exnh was the one of the worst. Problem is, and I hope someone can help me here, we are back in court. He is lying so much, and I am very scared. My former attorney tells me I cannot maintain my composure and I have said some things (written and verbal) that have a negative impact on my case. I really do not have much contact with him, but we have 2 elementary school-age kids. We do all exchanges at police station. He has not worked in 2 years (approx. time we have been divorced). He has a gf whom he lives off of.
We are in court now because he has been in contempt of financial obligations to the kids for almost 1 1/2 years. Now he is using voicemails from last year when we were fighting (stupid me did not keep his!) and taking them out of context of things. I feel like I am going to lose it all. His attorney even filed for me to pay HIS bill because he is not working and I work 2 jobs to suuport the kids.
Now my attorney has fired me because he says I am saying things to exnh (have not) and I am basically up a creek. Cannot afford another attorney and pre-trial is in Dec.
So he is basically negating all of his financial obligations to the kids, telling them horrible things about me and I don't have a lawyer. I am supporting my kids on my own and have no extra money.
Any advice on how to do this with no attorney? Anyone know an attorney in Chicago who will help a desperate mother???
I am so depressed and scared and feel like there is no hope left for the kids and me. He lies, everyone believes him, is extremely lazy and doesn't even want the kids except to show everyone what a great dad he is! I am alone in my legal battle.
Thank you in advance. I am a lurker and read all the great advice you all have. Please help me!
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I would love help.
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