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#1 May 16 - 3AM
Scoop
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D&D made simple

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1U4J3t6gpgQ

I have just had some computer lessons and i now know how to copy and paste (thanks yogi for doing it for me in the past !)
I have some great stuff all saved so stand by ladies ... this is a test for me so please let me know it it was successful .. big love Scoop xx

May 16 - 10PM
whoknew
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narcassism/psychopath for dummies

i loved it. im watching all of them. he really does just break it down. i see the comments of others on youtube and how they are questioning his credentials, etc. but hell...those of you that have went through this and done all the work and research trying to put your life and mind back together are basically doing the same thing. there is something to be said for PERSONAL EXPERIENCE, you dont have to have a PhD to teach somebody something. i think he rocks! and i love the accent and how he said...you know we are not dealing with human beings, they are a subspecies LMAO. well put in my opinion. thanks for sharing!
May 16 - 4AM
fear for my sanity
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Hi Scoop!

I've only been on this forum for a few weeks as I only found it after being almost 7 months NC but struggling through a difficult phase and starting to feel like I was the crazy one again! My story is mild compared to yours and some of the others here but I guess we each have to deal with our own suffering somehow and I love the way everyone encourages everyone else here. You are truly inspiring! Your link worked beautifully and is really great! I hadn't come across this lovely straight-talking Irish guy before. I've watched a few of the youtube clips by him now and they are all really helpful in understanding what we've been through, so thank you so much for sharing them! Well done with the computer lessons too - learning something new, whatever our age (I'm 51!) is an empowering thing and anything that empowers us right now has to be a good thing! Wishing you a peaceful and happy day xx
May 16 - 6AM (Reply to #2)
Scoop
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FFMS

7 months NC is great you must feel very proud of youre self . 7 months for me was a strange time and i think its a bit of a twilight zone in recovory time where exhaustion kicks in and its easy to go back to the brain washed state the narc worked on us as its just do tiring to keep pushing against it but that is what you must do, dig deep and work through it , keep reading , go back and reread everything you have read before and head towards the light .. and i can tell you there is light just head down and get through it . Thomas Sheridan is a real find and i love his vidios , i put them on when i have a week moment , i wrote to him and he very pleased to have helped and has no worrys about the copy right rubbish . Big love Scoop xx
May 16 - 9PM (Reply to #5)
Smitten Kitten (not verified)
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I'm currently reading his book

Puzzling People: Labyrinth of the Psychopath and find it extremely helpful, easy to read, and can't put it down! So I struggle between reading that and this board! LOL!
May 16 - 7AM (Reply to #3)
fear for my sanity
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Thanks for the encouragement

It means a lot right now. I feel I can't take too much credit for the 7 months NC as N told me one day I was the best friend he's ever had and the next day said he didn't want any contact in any shape or form with me ever again and that I should forget he ever existed. Well, the person I though I knew really didn't exist - I guess he just got tired of playing the part. So you see, I had NC enforced on me - it wasn't my choice to start with, though I have resisted the temptation to email him and give him a piece of my mind as I've been working through the anger and hurt of it all. In my head I have confrontations with him though where I really tell him like it is, but I wouldn't dream of doing it in real life because not only would it be a waste of breath on someone who is incapable of feeling any remorse, but I would more than likely end up getting more hurt, and who wants that?! Take care, Scoop, and thanks again for sharing. xx
May 16 - 9PM (Reply to #4)
Smitten Kitten (not verified)
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This too happened to me

I've been NC for 9 weeks now and mine also told me not to contact him in any way, shape or form as well. He had already dumped me for a new GF overnight and tried to relegate me to friend status, but it wasn't working out for him so well, since I wouldn't play that game. I think he realized I just wasn't going to give him the supply he needed any more and was really seeing him for WHAT he was. I also think he anticipated my "abandonment" and D&D'd me one final time so that he was in control. He had said to me a few days earlier, "I really feel you're going to quit talking to me for good one of these days." He had said this many times throughout our relationship, as if he knew all along where things were headed. This time, however, it was an imminent reality. He HAD dumped me for another woman after all and most of our subsequent conversations were me venting, asking for answers, trying to get closure, fighting with him..... still locked in the power "dance." When he said this the last time and I didn't answer or deny it, he said "It must be true then, since you're not denying it. No answer is my answer."