Dating......
Dating......
I had to change my name from fallingforward to fallingforward5.
Short update....on dating. I made the commitment to not date and am giving myself the 18 months the mods recommended.
It's been hard.....I been asked out a few times and have refused. I didn't see how much time these men were from my recovery. For while I was so busy trying to get myself set financially (recovering from the narc). That I didn't let myself deal with all the aspects of healing.
Though I have moved on (no longer have any contact or want any), I still am heartbroken about the whole illusions of lies. He lied from the first day I met him. I can see now that I wanted to believe the lies, because I was not happy with my own life. I experienced the death of many loved ones before I met him. My mom and my sister, and I was still grieving over them. I wanted someone to care for me. This along with other issues, (many others) help set me up for him. I'm someone who rolled with the punches and never really grieve other some of the situations in my life that called for it.
So sill.......no dating. Just working on me. Looking for a new counseler and learning how to live in the moments of life.
Hugs to all the strong men and woman here,
ff5
i got involved too soon as
I feel like I could have
kitka
Totally agree...
Dated too soon
lessonlearned
ff
Maya
so true...
Beautifully said
Awesome
Thanks for your support
Hey ff
Thanks Jamie...