Damnit, I'm back!
Damnit, I'm back!
Well with much shame and disappointment in myself, I am back and begging for help! I used to post here quite a bit and then successfully went no contact for a few months and thought all of this was behind me. But, like a dumbass I found myself being sucked right back in to my own personal hell of verbal and emotional abuse and yet another incident of physical abuse. Now my head is spinning, I am in excruciating mental and emotional agony, anxiety-ridden and depressed. I know now that I truly do hate this person, yet I am afraid to let him go again. I feel the pain of letting go is equal to the pain of staying in such a toxic, abusive relationship. One seems no worse or better than the other option. I have people that want to go out with me, spend time with, but I can't allow myself to do that because I am so filled with anger and hurt and terrified of unloaded sooooo much baggage upon others. So basically I am shutting down. I feel like I am dying inside. I feel like I can't go anywhere, do anything, have friends or do anything other than be with him, which inevitably leads to put downs, criticism, emotional attacks and abuse. He controls and invades every tiny aspect of my life and for the life of me, I don't understand why I can't let go once and for all. I'm at the end of my rope here. I feel like I'm forgetting how to have fu7n and how to be happy and free like I was before I began a relationship with him.
I want to be happy again.... How do I get there?
Monilove
All of your feedback is appreciated
Suffering isn't holding you.
Control
Monilove
You know why MF has powerful
Thanks Hunter
Dammit I'm back
MONI, please consider
spinning
So few words...
You have to the do the work