No ruby,
But there are options here:
A. No call, but he would have told everybody, that he did and how sad what happened
B. No call, but he would express to everyone how stupid WakingUp is because it was obvious since she always left the fireplace on
C. He would call- after the first hardest days are over= no real help is needed, come over have sex and leave her alone in her trouble with some extra heartbreak
almost immediately. Just said he'd call me later..
However, my expectations are at zero.
I texted his wife too. She's freaked out and has no one (he's got her emotionally isolated.)
damn.
it's not heartless to put your precious heart first finally!
there will always be a "good reason" to contact him- or at least our addicted minds will tell us there is....I so get why you did this...There was sickness, death, loss, accidents- all fabulous reasons to let him know I cared....
but then the game of misery would just begin again...and who would lose? Me , my heart, my soul, my sanity.
so finally, I let what happens to him- the good and the bad- all go....My concern and my priority MUST BE my healing and my recovery. If I am not well, then I suffer and those close to me suffer.
I am sure he has support and care elsewhere. You reaching out will not change his fate. I know this is super tough, but please put yourself first this time. Your precious heart is asking for this.
I completely agree with Striving. I know NOTHING about my ex and I want to KNOW nothing about my ex. Like you, if I heard something that were to be a true Heart feeling issue, I would want to reach out. But I WOULD stop myself because nothing good would ever come of it. And he certainly does not have the ability to appreciate it. NC. all the way, all the time, no matter what.
Getting hoovered too.
WakingUP
No ruby
I honestly don't know.
Did he get back to you????
yes.
it's not heartless to put your precious heart first finally!
Waking up