Creeped out, very anxious.

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#1 Sep 15 - 8PM
Unfreakinreal
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Creeped out, very anxious.

Today when I went to get in my car after work, someone had left a piece of paper with a smiley face drawn on it stuck to my window. No words, just the smiley and drawn very perfectly, very deliberate.

I can't tell who it was, either my current XN or the one before that.

It doesn't seem like something either one of them would do. Either one of them would normally text if they had something to say. I have made it clear to both of them that I wanted to be left alone. The one before this one I have not seen in over a year. My car was parked in a different area than usual.

Have been NC with current XN since mid day Saturday and this is the first time I have not contacted him for this long.

I can't explain it but it really has me rattled. Big time.

Sep 15 - 11PM
Unfreakinreal
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I feel like I am waiting for

I feel like I am waiting for the other shoe to drop. I asm trying to clear my head but all it's doing is giving me a migraine. My car was parked in a completely different area that only a few people would know where to look. This is a person who rarely cared about how I was doing at all so I can't imagine why he would do that. Unless he is that cruel.
Sep 15 - 11PM (Reply to #7)
Pride and Shame
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Hmmm...

I wouldn't rule out cruelty for any of these whack jobs. Be careful!!
Sep 15 - 11PM (Reply to #6)
needing2know
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I think it is just an attempt

I think it is just an attempt to get you to text or call him
Sep 15 - 9PM
lilliandiane
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hypersensitve

You are on red alert--hypersensitive to men who so got inside your head that you could feel their presence. You are waiting for him to reach out in a way that will either blindside you or cause you to run to him for protection ot comfort when you are creeped out. The smiley face could be a innocent gesture from someone who simply wanted to make you smile. Don't let him convince you that you are alone and vulnerable.
Sep 15 - 8PM
adoette
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unfreakinreal

Your rattledness is TOTALLY understandable. I hope you deleted the smiley face. I'm sure it is one of your Ns. Don't let him win. If you haven't done it yet, put the paper in the toilet where it belongs with the other shyt. It's hoovering. Plain and simple. And he wants you to be rattled. Shake it off. Be sad and jittered up for a little, but then do what it takes to calm thyself down. I get why you are so rattled. I really and truly do. So, know that you have people here that empathize with you and are wishing you soon and coming peace. hugs, adoette PS You're doing great. You've reached a NC record. Stick with it and stay strong.
Sep 15 - 9PM (Reply to #2)
Unfreakinreal
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It was so unexpected. Now I

It was so unexpected. Now I feel totally exposed. I don't think it was the previous N, but not something that the current N would do either - at least I don't think so. It didn't seem like he was interested in continuing at all, I assumed he was already out doing his own thing without a thought of me at all. It was the way it was drawn that really got to me, I know that sounds ridiculous. Like extreme care was taken to make it perfect, and his handwriting is not neat at all. Paranoia on top of everything else? Lovely.
Sep 15 - 9PM (Reply to #3)
needing2know
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Hi DLB buddy lol

That is creepy, but stay strong! maybe your ex did do it, hoping you would call him to ask if he put it there. Don't call him!Don't text him!