Crazy realization!
Crazy realization!
So after had been married for 18 yrs (unhappily to say the least) I met the Narc....Four years later I find this site out of desparation trying to figure out why he made me still want to be around even though 99% of the time I was miserable. Well he fit the bill to a T. Narc narc narc....I do more and more reading and have come to the realization that my exH is also a NARC!!! in a bit of a different way if thats possible? I read up on gaslighting and again my jaw dropped! I lived with self doubt and thoughts that I was crazy for sooo long! I have since proved all the lies he told me during our marriage WERE lies! Why have I attracted these types? why did I think so little of myself??? I broke NC with the four year man- i had to tell him! I know it wasnt right but I did it..moment of weakness...I have almost nC with exH but we do have kids ...so I keep it to minimum....I am a little overwhelmed by this discovery....Thank god I found tis forum....
Eliza
Eliza
Eliza
BAM
i really did lose myself
Eliza
seeing red... flags, that is
IHTC
Really
GF
Reading your story, I thought I was writing it myself!!
i agree
it IS scary!