Coping with loneliness
Coping with loneliness
I’ve been NC for about three months now and I do feel a bit better. I’m not 100% back to myself, but I can see that I will be…eventually. I am in therapy to work through some of the reasons why I seem to choose the same type of relationship over and over. I am making progress.
My fear is that I waited too long to deal with all of this. I turned 36 last month and I am coming to the sad realization that I have never had a relationship with a man who truly loved me in the way that I (and all of us) deserve to be loved. I always sold myself out to meet someone else’s needs, and eventually left every relationship because I was so depleted I just had to give up. I’m trying hard not to blame myself for this since all I can really do is make a change NOW, but this is a hard reality to face.
My question to you all is this: how do you get over the crippling post-Narc loneliness? In this last relationship, for the first time, I saw myself settling down and building a life with someone. Now, the dream is dead. I worry that I waited too long to work through issues from my past, and now I will never find the relationship that I want. I worry that missed my chance to have children. I worry that the men who are healthy, happy and whole have already met the women of their dreams and there will be no one out there for me.
Do any of you struggle with this? How do you deal with it?
Much thanks
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Your dream is not dead. The
No Absolutely not the dream is NOT DEAD!