confused
confused
So is a man who is an unfaithful type a narcissist then ? Is narc the new word for men that cheat ? How do you know your man is cheating or living a double life ? I get so confused. I read al this and it scares me because I don't know what's real ? I still feel I'm searching for the truth. I don't know that he's cheated on me. How can I know for sure that he has or will had ow and how do I know that he's a narc or psychopath ? How can I have read and understood so much yet still feel I don't know whether he is or not ? I just don't know what to do ! I keep trying to end the relationship because of all that has happened and the fact that just recently he's started to physically attack me when I've disagreed or challenged him but I can't end it ! I feel like I don't have enough evidence or any that he's cheated other than now I've read this it makes sense but not enough sense. I'm just going round and round and I want to get out of the loop and on with my life. I'm not happy with him and realistically I can't see me ever being happy with him. He makes no plans for our future shows know definate comittment yet expects to control my life to the point that he drags me out of the pub when I was having lunch with my friend ! He hasn't even apologised even though he assaulted me verbally abused my friend and the police were called. He was out of control but when the police arrived he was laughing and joking with them saying we had a verbal disagreement ! He was screaming in my face headbutted me twice though not hard had hold of my hair and threw me in a bush ! Am I mad ! Why am I letting him do this to me !
thanks
Good questions
indenial, sweetheart,
spinning
cognitive dissonance