Competitive lying

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#1 Dec 24 - 2PM
Leigh123
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Competitive lying

I know this is a silly thing to feel torn up about but here goes.

I won a small running comp a few months ago. I was struggling for cash & said to a mutual friend if I won the money, I'd give it to my kids who've done it tough. So I win, I email the narc & he said "wow, you really must have wanted the money". There is a good chance he'd been told what I said.

He then went in to to me he'd just done a 10k run with a friend. I thought it odd as he's not a runner & while not impossible, I just found it strange a mon runner could knock out a cheeky 10k like that. I am a runner & find it isn't that easy.

I brought it up with the friend 2 days ago who said they have never run with him. So essentially he lied, presumably because I'd won the comp.

Was it to impress me, compete, downgrade my achievement? Now HE'S not talking to me now, not sure why. But if he decides I'm worthy of his contact in the future, do I call him on it? I have it in black & white, so he can't say he didn't say it. Or do I just let it go? I feel like I've been punched. It's such a stupid thing to lie about.

Meanwhile he's ignoring me, but his son is blowing up my email. Bizarre. I don't really want to chit chat to an 8 year old boy.

Dec 25 - 8AM
Used
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I won a small running comp a

Dec 25 - 12AM
Loie
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NC starts when you start it.

Dec 25 - 1AM (Reply to #14)
Leigh123
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Okay, here is an example. As

Dec 25 - 11AM (Reply to #16)
talktothehand
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Leigh

Dec 25 - 1AM (Reply to #15)
Loie
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Then I guess it's an impasse?

Dec 24 - 9PM
thebigpayback
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really? so you work with him

Dec 24 - 5PM
Fellforaclown
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Hello, Leigh!

Dec 24 - 6PM (Reply to #2)
Leigh123
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LC, NC isn't possible. I

Dec 25 - 10AM (Reply to #11)
ItsFinallytime
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NC isn't impossible, Leigh,

Dec 24 - 10PM (Reply to #10)
Goldie
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Obviously

Dec 24 - 7PM (Reply to #3)
Fellforaclown
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Huh?

Dec 24 - 11PM (Reply to #5)
Leigh123
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Honestly, I really didn't

Dec 25 - 12AM (Reply to #6)
Goldie
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So NC

Dec 25 - 1AM (Reply to #7)
Leigh123
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How narcs son was cruel to

Dec 25 - 8AM (Reply to #8)
Willow
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Leigh, I'm going to tell you

Dec 25 - 8AM (Reply to #9)
Used
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willow

Dec 24 - 7PM (Reply to #4)
Fellforaclown
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Btw....