Christmas card from my mother

My story and my message board posts have focused on my ex narcissistic husband. I don't think I have mentioned my psychopathic brother or my mother whom I suspect has NPD with narc traits.

My psycho brother did something truly evil several years ago (and is still trying to destroy me from afar). In the process he turned the rest of my family bar one against me.

Due to this, my mother (one of the psycho-brother's sidekicks) who herself has treated me appallingly on countless occasions, has not seen my children since my youngest child (now nearly 10) was a toddler.

This was her choice and eventually it suited me - I need people like that like I need a hole in the head. I still sent her flowers on her birthday and Mother's Day though (I'm not sure why). I never got a Thank You but to be honest, that was okay - it is her presence I can barely tolerate.

However, a few days ago, a fancy expensive Christmas card arrived. I recognised her handwriting on the envelope and thought, "Oh, that's nice, she's finally become human".

Inside the card however, she had written "To S****, L**** and K****, from Your mother and the Grandma they don't know"

WTF???

They don't know you, you manipulative old witch, because YOU CHOSE NOT TO KNOW THEM.

Go on, make me feel guilty for something that YOU CHOSE TO DO.

I despair