bumped into ex
bumped into ex
So, I bumped into my ex (almost literally) at a club this weekend. She was out with her sister and her sister's friends. (My ex has no friends.) I made a beeline to the bar where I thought about leaving, but was stopped by my friends (there happened to be about a dozen of my friends at this place). Anyways, we made eye contact at which point she proceeded to put on a show -- grinding on this guy who I happen to know is a bartender at a local restaurant. On one hand, it really hurt to watch. On the other, it was pretty clear she was putting on a show with someone I know to be a manwhore. She made me feel like I wasn't good enough and nothing I did was ever good enough. At the risk of offending bartenders, I think most would agree that dating one (or at least letting one grind all over you) after dating an attorney isn't really trading up... In any case, I lost more respect for her.
Thankfully, two of my friends, who happen to be smoking hot, drug me out onto the dance floor and danced with me the rest of the night near her table. I looked over a few times to see her sitting by herself staring at the girls I was dancing with.
I love her (probably always will) and don't want to hurt her, so maybe it was immature to play her game. To her, it's all about winning and she will do absolutely anything to win including hurting me. She left by herself after a few hours. The next day, she defriended my family on facebook.