Breaking contact
Breaking contact
I did not sleep last night I am just hurting so much from this situation. I thougt about why we break contact,and I think for me personally I break contact because I want to be validated even if that is just him telling me that he is sorry for hurting me for all of these years and just for him to let me know that I was special and I meant something to him not just supply I think we also want them to miss us like we miss them. I read on here last night that someone said you only are going to get 2 things when you break contact and I don't remember who posted it but that response was so true I know because since I have been in and out for 12 years I know what I will get. I have broken contact and I feel like crap after I have made contact. I think we al want them to say they love us and we want them to say they have made a mistake abusing us but with my exn it is all my fault so what would he have to apologise for, and when they do say what we want to hear it is because they need us again for their own selfish pleasure. I am having a hard time with no contact but I am going to try to keep it up. When I have broken contact and he talks a little nice I will get up and clean, go shopping etc. but I will call later and he is telling me to go on about my business. I also want him to tell me the truth. I keep asking him if he is in a relationship and he says whatever you say and he gets angry. I am not sure why he responds like that because I knw he is with the woman but he will not claim her WHY? If he loves her so much he would want everyone to know. Ok I am rambling I guess I just needed to puke some of this pain and bitterness out this morning.
Avid
Avid
It sounds to me like you're
breaking contact
the reason to break contact
I like what you say wacaet.