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#1 Nov 29 - 2PM
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Bluemoon

wanted to make sure you saw my question, did you live with him, and if so how long were you with him? Just wondered and a bit shocked they could do this to live in girlfriends, I always thought they kept the wives and live in GF's separate from their other deviated life

Nov 29 - 7PM
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Hi Cynthia, No, it was a

Hi Cynthia, No, it was a straight-on girlfriend/boyfriend thing. We never really set up house together, but we were together for almost 5 years. His secret life (or what I discovered) was basically about internet stuff- trying to get validation from other chicks online, etc. This type of person will do this to anyone upon whom they wish to exert control for their own benefit...
Nov 29 - 9PM (Reply to #2)
cynthia (not verified)
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gotcha

This type of person will do this to anyone upon whom they wish to exert control for their own benefit. Ya what a scum, they all have different gigs dont they, mine likes to live with his Gf and do this on the side, guess mine was more insecure ha ha needs a warm body to lay next to him at night, ha
Nov 30 - 8AM (Reply to #3)
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My Boyfriend and Yours sound like the same person

I have been living with my N BF for the last 2 years and 'with' him for 3 years. I am sure when he has cheated on me that he tells the other woman he is single. Once I got him a beautifully framed (small size) picture of us together for his desk at his office. It was actually very small, not intrusive or 'statement' making. The pic of us together was one of his particular favorites of us...we are Very happy in it and look like an ideal adorable couple. I gave it to him as one of his anniversary gifts...among others... (he didn't get me anything, as usual...as he thinks his very presence in my life is 'gift' enough evidently. OMG! Such a narcissist! He refused to take it (the photo of us) to work to put it on his desk...told me there was a 'company policy' that he was NOT allowed to have personal items, like pictures on his desk or in his own office space. (although he DOES have pics of his 2 boys!, hmmm)...One day I ran into a person who works in his department at his work. I happened to mention that I thought it was a pretty strict policy at their work that there was no 'personal' items like pics allowed on their desks...and this coworker of my BF informed me that there was NO such rule at all, and in fact he had about 6 pics on his desk and in his own cubicle at his office. He knows my BF and told me that my BF gives the impression he is single at work and is quite the 'ladies man'...he also asked me how long we have been together and if we were 'happy'...and informed me that my BF had a 'following' of young ladies who wanted his attention...and with whom he flirts and goes to breaks and lunch with. He said my BF comes across at work as one of the nicest and greatest guys and a 'great catch'. He also said " You are very lucky to be the one he is actually with as so many women would be jealous of you if they knew about you"....UNBELIEVABLE! I told this co-worker of my BF that under the circumstances...it was my BF who was the lucky one! I almost wonder Cynthia...if I am the GF living with your BF that he didn't tell you about! HA! I am sure he has had many women who don't know about me...that's why I chose the forum name for myself ... The Girlfriend of Dr Jekly/ Mr Hyde
Nov 30 - 11AM (Reply to #4)
cynthia (not verified)
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you wonder

I almost wonder Cynthia...if I am the GF living with your BF that he didn't tell you about! HA! I am sure he has had many women who don't know about me...that's why I chose the forum name for myself ... I doubt it, is yours a sheriff? You bet they have others, they always have others on the side. Girlfriend I have to tell you, you arent really his girlfriend, one of many I am sure, and I was never his GF, and I never meant anything to him, we are just there to give him admiration and praise and he puts the label GF on it, what a crock of shit, THe way they think it should be more like Girl-fuck that is what we are to them,sorry to be crude but that was about all anyone means to them, but boy dont they put on a good show and act for us?