Block him. Do it. Do it now.
Block him. Do it. Do it now.
Hey, everyone:
I've seen a lot of posts from people who write about still seeing the exN online or on Facebook. One of the hardest emotional steps we can take is to click that button to delete or block them from having electronic access to us, but it's one of the best things you can do for yourself.
My exN blocked me on Facebook a couple months ago, when his wife found out about our affair. I remember at the time he told me, "I doubt it will be forever. We can probably have contact again in six months." I laughed and said, "Oh yeah, I'm sure this will all blow over and all of us will get together for a big laugh." (He truly thought he'd manipulate his wife enough that our affair wouldn't be a big deal.)
So although I haven't seen the Jerk on Facebook since October, I admit I would still go to his wife's page. Her permissions are semi-tight but I could still see her profile pic. I can't tell you how much of my life I spent reading the tea leaves of what her new profile pictures meant. When it was of her with the Jerk I made myself miserable, picturing them completely happy and skipping through life while I tried to pick up the pieces of my own marriage. When she changed it to a picture of her and their son (the Jerk not included) it made me smile because surely that means they're on the rocks and she's going to take him for half of everything!
Then last night I realized that this is just self-torture. What I want most out of life right now is to not have anything to do with either one of them or their completely dysfunctional marriage, yet here I was trying to gauge their happiness through a photo.
Today is the day I shut down that self-destructive behavior. This afternoon I blocked his wife. I can no longer see her and she cannot see me (I was told that she would sometimes look at my page too.)
It was a hard button to push, but once I did it I felt like a load of bricks was off my chest. I logged into this site from work to tell you all to do it too. Seriously - give yourself back some sanity.
Respond back if you block him! Let's get this going!
Blocked
Blocked = Peace of
It was a hard button for me
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.
Right on target....
stay~strong
Right on!
Samantha - you are SO very right!
Ava
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