The Blessing of Being Blocked

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#1 Nov 25 - 8AM
DontLookBack
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The Blessing of Being Blocked

Hi everyone, I still check in from time to time and this forum has helped me stay sane over the last 2 years of my Narc recovery. I was seriously injured over the summer and almost died, and of course the exN tried to contact and let me know that he was there for me as a "friend"...HA!!! He wanted to bring me a "gift" and I agreed in a weak moment. Then he never showed up when he said he would, so I texted him to just forget about it and that I didn't need to wait around for him to not come through once again, that I had plenty of friends who were there for me....he flipped out and replied that if I didn't want a friend that I didn't have one anymore and that he was only trying to be nice...and that he was officially blocking me...only to text me 2 days later to say that he wished I hadn't been such an a** to him and that he was only trying to be nice...I of course did not respond and have maintained NC since...here is my question: I have learned so much about Narcs and this one doesn't seem to fit the bill...him blocking me that is...I am happy for this blessing, but always understood Narcs like to keep the door open and we are always blocking them, not the reverse..just wondering if anyone else has been blocked by their Narc...I hate that it wasn't me first and that he got his final jab in

Dec 4 - 8AM
fefe65
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Yes they block that is his

Dec 1 - 2PM
SavingMyself
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I questioned being blocked too

Dec 1 - 3PM (Reply to #20)
BrokenBlonde
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Savingmyself...

Dec 1 - 3PM (Reply to #21)
SavingMyself
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BB, Similar Situation

Dec 1 - 2PM (Reply to #18)
Janie53
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Saving myself

Dec 1 - 5PM (Reply to #19)
SavingMyself
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Thank You Janie

Nov 29 - 4PM
homeschoolmama
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Thank you!

Nov 25 - 4PM
outoftheashes
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Final jab? Stay out of the game

Nov 29 - 4PM (Reply to #15)
Payitforward
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So true

Nov 26 - 3AM (Reply to #14)
talktothehand
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OOTA

Nov 25 - 1PM
HappyToForget
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Ego

Nov 25 - 1PM (Reply to #11)
spinning
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HTF, love this and

spinning

Nov 25 - 6PM (Reply to #12)
HappyToForget
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Too kind

Nov 25 - 11AM
talktothehand
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DLB

Nov 25 - 11AM
Used
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dontlookback

Nov 25 - 10AM
BrokenBlonde
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I've struggled with this too...

Nov 25 - 8AM
boomer14
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Why....

Nov 25 - 9AM (Reply to #5)
DontLookBack
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He did show up at the

Nov 25 - 10AM (Reply to #6)
boomer14
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The silver lining....

Nov 25 - 8AM
spinning
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Hi, DLB, and I'm glad

spinning

Nov 25 - 8AM (Reply to #3)
DontLookBack
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Thank You Spinning! You have

Nov 25 - 8AM
Hunter
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After two years you are still