A Bit of Advice

Please be strong.

Learn to identify when someone is taking advantage of you.

Be Bold.

Be bold enough to say it to their face.

Not in a threatening way, suggesting that you will "take them back".

This is the truth.

The Narc knows the end of your story, the day he met you.

You story might have gone on for 3 years, your story with them might have gone on for 7 years, some even longer.

The Narc KNOWS they are not treating people right.

They KNOW they are manipulating you.

They KNOW the brainwashing, AND its EFFECTS on you.

They know the misery they will cause,

They know the sacrafices you will make, to put your life on hold for them, to tolerate what is unacceptable.

They know they are cheating on you.

They know they are not like others, and that they dupe everyone, including their family, all the way down the line.

Do not fall for their pleas, their manipulation.

Please call it what it is.

Be brave enought, to see if for what it is.

When you have done this, succeed, and know they change, let me know.

I will rejoice with you in your victory, and triumph of the human spirit.