Big Hat, No Cattle

Just heard this phrase again today... fits a narc pretty well, huh? (It's a Texas expression)

Read it in this article on yahoo today: How To Tell If You're Dating A Financial Deadbeat.

It's a good N checklist really. If you really look at the signs listed, they are all about showing off more than financial irresponsibility. Because N's are all about showing off and everything about irresponsibility, whether it's financial, sexual, family, you name it.

http://finance.yahoo.com/family-home/article/110119/are-you-dating-a-fin...

I especially thought the first one was important, because I have a friend who keeps going on these internet match dates, and she is always so impressed by these expensive dinners they take her to, and act like money is no object... when it's just to dazzle and impress and has nothing to do with what a person is really like. I once read that waitresses love customers who come in with an internet date, because they will tip really big to try to impress the date.