For better off!

I too was thinking about you the other day and how when I was in such pain a few months ago you answered my posting when the ENarc was trying to guilt me because i went out for coffee after he dumped me, that response was instrumental to my healing and i will always be grateful to YOU for that, all the best to you.........................You are missed and your words of wisdom............

Thanks... and I'm more than okay. Doing well. I had a lot of traveling going on, and then I did get a crummy cold virus and was pretty sick for a while. It kind of broke my computer habit, and that's a good thing. I've been busy enjoying the fall and spending more time with my family and even my dog! I've been cooking a lot again. I used to cook quite a bit, I'm a decent cook, but over the past few years it was like I couldn't even remember what I knew how to make, and I didn't care anyway. Frozen pizza will do. So, anyway, I realized I needed to be a lot more engaged with "real life" again. As much as I love everyone here, I can't neglect the people around me and let my kids watch tv and eat cereal while I spend too much time online! It's so hard for me not to answer everyone all the time! But I do have to limit my activity. And also, I think it's simply a reflection on my healing. I promise anyone reading this I was as down in the dirt as anyone here once upon a time, but adhering to NC and just putting one foot in front of the other, I have now reached the point that I don't really want to think about it anymore. I have as many answers as I will ever get, and that only helps to a degree... just accept what they are and move on...and if I am not here talking about narcs, I actually DON'T think about it. Hugs to you, jen!