Becoming One of Them?
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Oct 10 - 2PM
Becoming One of Them?
Have any of you noticed during recovery that you have taken on some of the behaviors of your narc? In reflecting on some of my last interactions with him, I noticed that I (unconciously I think) used some of his behaviors on him. I witheld affection. I didn't have any desire to be affectionate with him because he literally made me sick. My biggest fear is that I'm going to be like him. I was raised by a narc, and the pain of recovery can take me to very dark places sometimes. Not wanting to feel pain is how many of the disordered got to where they are. I feel like my compassion and empathy for others is waning. My temper is shorter, and I have very little tolerence. Thoughts?
same fear here la.luna
Yes could have written this post word for word
I have had this too
All very normal
Yes! Me too, I noticed
Good point
Yes, I read somewhere that the victim of a N
Empath
my anger startles me too
You will.
Anger startles me too