Ask Yourself This Question If The Split Is Recent
Ask Yourself This Question If The Split Is Recent
Thinking about going back? Thinking about all the great times to keep from facing the reality that he just won't ever love you the way you deserve to be loved? Doubting that he's driven you to the point of madness and still thinking that it might just have been all your fault?
Ask yourself this question. If you died tomorrow...would the man you just left shed a single tear when he heard the news (presupposing, of course, there is no audience present)? Do you think he'd show up at your funeral? (I mean if there's nothing in it for him, like good PR or something).
Let me share this. Mr. Wonderful...never lifted a finger when my mom was sick with terminal cancer...he offered no emotional support...I never even got an "I'm sorry" when she died...he didn't even hold my hand at her funeral. It was like being with a glacier...I didn't want him to attend and he insisted, stating, "I have my reasons"...and of course, forget my feelings about it; hell she was just my mom after all and he has to maintain his image for my grieving father (who now dislikes him).
Five months after I left him, they found a 5 mm unruptured aneurysm in my cerebral artery (brain)...3 days after that, I was on an operating table having it repaired. Never saw hide nor hair of him at that time or at any time while I was recovering. That was the person I spent 7 years of my life with and that's what I meant to him...absolutely nothing. The diagnosis and treatment were scary as hell...but I never missed his presence, because he was never present at any time before during times of crisis. It forced me to look back on the last 7 years and KNOW in my heart that I made the right decision.
For you personally, you know what the answer to the above questions are...and you know what you need to do now.....don't you? Get busy...the rest of your life awaits you and you're pissing precious moments of it away obsessing over a ghost.
good post
Syren, here I thought I was special and
syren66
Syren you are wrong.. Narcs
Actually Hunter,
AGREE
Allow me to repeat...IF there
dead or alive
NH couldnt give a damn about me dead or alive
Its funny you asked about
I Thought I Was The Only One
syren, may you live a long and peaceful life
No he wouldn't