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#1 Dec 28 - 12AM
blueworld
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anyone

guys i know i normally dont do this but i am reaching out tonight trying to understand why he did this and what to expect now its been three months since i have spoken to him and he is in a different state i am nc and have remained full no contact, that is not even a issue for me anymore i am just trying to understand the point in contacting my freinds in text on xmas

and should i be now prepared for me next?

after all this time?

so lost, if i could understand better i wouldnt be so confused of the why

Dec 28 - 7AM
Hunter
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They cycle every 3 to 6

They cycle every 3 to 6 months.. There is nothing for you to do.. Get Into thearpy, read, one on one with Goldie.. Delete,Delete,Delete.. Hunter
Dec 28 - 2AM
virginia (not verified)
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I am a little confused as to what you are asking...

I will tell you that Sam Vaknin, a self proclaimed Cerebral Narcissist has excellent explanations on narcs behaviors and how to deal with them and how they think...I have spent wks. listening to him on You Tube videos...Hope this will help in some way...
Dec 28 - 12AM
Anari
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Blue, my dear it was a Hoover

Blue, my dear it was a Hoover to cause you pain. You already know about scrambled eggs nothing makes sense. I can tell this one Hoover has messed you up. Please blue don't give him a second thought.
Dec 28 - 9AM (Reply to #2)
Redhead1
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You just need to realize

You just need to realize everything is a game to them. There is no real meaning behind it. If there is some meaning behind it, realize it has nothing to do with you. His OW may have been unavailable so he is bored with no supply. He is empty, so there is nothing to draw on when he is alone.