Any thoughts

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#1 Aug 16 - 5PM

Soldier Girl

Any thoughts

I changed my phone number to go complete Nc six days ago
and I am starting to feel better for it !
had a really good morning for the first time in weeks
The last text i sent before I changed my number was
WTF do not contact me ever!
So today exN passed by my apt shouting out loud for him ,my name in a jokey way
after I felt shaky
he done this also 2 weeks ago passing by shouting out my surname.
He did not press my buzzer or hang around outside he was just passing by I guess,
But its great how he has one of his Ow convinced that I am the stalker and she told me that he said he will never be rid of me! looks like he was telling her about himself
Any thoughts ?

#2 Aug 17 - 8AM

ruby01 (not verified)

francois

Okay, he's just making him himself look like a complete idiot. Not only has he lost control of you, he has lost control of himself. Sit back. There's more to come. He will look more and more hideous as time goes by. Soon you will find yourself truly repulsed by him and asking yourself, "What the heck was I thinking?"

#3 Aug 17 - 9AM (Reply to #8)

Soldier Girl

Ruby01

Thank you Ruby Xx

#4 Aug 16 - 9PM

Hunter

Thought??

Good Idea blocking his number. Cheers!! Seriously, WTF??? I swear they all so the same thing. When I was a kid, Narcs girlfriend would come up to me saying things I had no idea what she was talking about. I think if it was now and I was treated the same, I could be typing with an Orange Suit on from death row. There was sweet revenge, she had a public D & D tears like Niagara Falls, My day of glory arrived, I walked up to that bitch and I said " Ha, told you so" and she got to see the back of my head getting smaller as I waled away. Sit back and eat the popcorn. If his behavior get worse you may need a restraining Order. Hunter

#5 Aug 17 - 7AM (Reply to #2)

Soldier Girl

Thoughts ?

Thanks Hunter I could not block his number so I changed my phone number it feels good knowing that he cant get into my space ! Telling some one they cant get rid of me and not leaving me alone is projection right? He also told OW that he feels sorry for me WTF what a joke i have been supporting him for 3 years .talk about taking the piss and then some!

#6 Aug 17 - 8AM (Reply to #3)

Hunter

Francois

What he's says or what he does from this point forward will make zero sense! In his eyes the perfection, the closeness you offered him is flawed. During the idealization period things seem fairly normal. However I'm sure red flags were there,Once the D&D games hit you full force, from that moment on, their brain, their behavior, all turns to mush, "scrambled eggs". The important thing here is it's time you focus on you, there usually is a reason we latch on to these toxic people. So start that soul search. I think at the end of the day many lessons are learned and we become, stronger and wiser. I love to travel, yet this is a journey, I'd prefer left alone! Hunter

#7 Aug 17 - 9AM (Reply to #4)

Soldier Girl

Hunter

Hi hunter I got taken in by a con artist some one who took my kindness for weekness Soul searching has begun and I know I need to start showing me some of my own love Big hugs Xx

#8 Aug 17 - 12PM (Reply to #5)

spinning

Francois, right on!

The same thing happened to me: "Someone mistook my kindness for weakness." I like the lack of victim-hood in the way you put that. My kindness is not a flaw. Neither is yours. Naivete, trust, belief, willingness to put someone else first is where I need the work. I've been doing the work and it does pay. Never Again will I lower the bar for any man; financially support any man; give so much (all of myself) to any man; or put up with being lied to, manipulated, lied to some more, used, abused, confused and never again doubt myself and MY GUT. Francois, I'm proud of you for changing your number. NC is the only way! Most sincerely, (not) spinning. NEVER AGAIN!

spinning

#9 Aug 17 - 6PM (Reply to #6)

Soldier Girl

Spinning

Thank you spinning I am not lowering my bar again either not very good at limbo lol I need to work on the same stuff you have talked about and I won't ignore red flags again Big hugs xx

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