For all of you that want him to come back or contact you again.....
For all of you that want him to come back or contact you again.....
DONT! Dont feel that way! Please! You will not win and you will not feel better! I know this. My xn has been horrible to me for the last month and a half. I have been praying everynight for something good from him. Some sort of validation. SOMETHING. Well I got it today. And guess what? I feel worse! I really really do. He wanted me to come get my stuff from his house today. He wanted me to see him because it was the ONLY way he would give it back. He also had some of my room mate's stuff but he would only give it to me. I am sad to say that I went. I felt sick to my stomach the whole drive there. When I got there I grabbed my stuff and my room mates stuff and he tried acting like we were best friends. Asking me about my life and telling me about his. When I went to leave he asked for a hug and told me to text him later and keep in touch. I just left. Then after I drove off I realized that he didnt give me the money that he owed my room mate which is a big reason I went there. I text him telling him that he forgot to pay me. He said he knows that. Then I asked him to just mail her a check because it would be easiest for everyone. He told me that he would never mail a check. I asked how she would get her money and he said that I would have to come back soon to get it. He did this on purpose. He asked me to come back to his place soon and stay longer next time and start hanging out again. I just told him that I am a very busy person and dont really see this happening.
ALL I CAN SAY IS DONT WANT THEM TO CONTACT YOU! I should feel so much better that I got validated and that he wants me in his life again, but I dont. I feel worse actually. I can see his game and how sick he is. I feel sick to my stomach. I am going no contact now but I am sure that he wont give up. Ever worse is that I called my phone company today to block his number and they said that they do not do this anymore. I feel sick.
Closure, validation, explanations
Manipulation
Can u just change your
staying strong78
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"dont let yesterday take up too much of today"
Don't answer.......... then
Ending the dance
I plan on it
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"dont let yesterday take up too much of today"
WOW.. These guys are the same colour 'black all over arent they?
Vix
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"dont let yesterday take up too much of today"