Agoraphobic
Agoraphobic
The thing is, I have done NC, I have kept away from his hometown, I have deleted my FB account, I have thrown away my old phone and the sim card that went with it and I have generally kept a low profile at work to avoid the second OW ( since the official OW is only here at the week-end)
But - the second OW he has chosen works in my organisation, last friday he was seen in MY hometown by my friend with a woman and last week they were nearly having lunch in the same restaurant where I was with my team.... not by design I am sure. How could he have known....( same story, she turned up and left 45 mns alone, after she saw me and must have warned him - she must have felt like a stupid fool as he still left her to marinate for 45mns on her own before making a change of plans)
Now it is the holidays. Official OW will be down here but he still be working and probably going out to lunch and hotels with the other one....
I am dreading an encounter of the narc.... but there is nowhere left to hide!!! double whammy of OWs and him juggling them both plus some more I am sure....
I am turning seriously agoraphobic....I only feel safe in my house with the shutters off and the curtains drawn or in the garden....
Do others feel this way?
dudette
and a strange thing happened...
Agoraphobic
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