About looking at the N's web activity.

I just wanted to say that when I peeked it was in a very roundabout way, and it was very difficult and too time consuming to do again.
It proved 2 things to me, one; he really is a narc.
and two; he still had a hold on me.

Please read..
It is because of my exN (was a current at the time) I learned a lot about tracking via internet. He tracked me.
Many profiles (not the ones here though, I checked:) on social sites can be embedded with trackers. If they care to do the homework, they can see if you visited their page.
Don't feed the narcs!!! Don't let them sit back smugly and say, "haha, still got that one hooked" and if you think your narc isn't tech savvy enough to implement a tracker, does he have a friend geek who would or could?

I do believe the internet should be somewhat transparent, unfortunately it is rife with bullies, stalkers, narcs, and various other abusers of technology.

To me, my IP is like my phone number, if I want to give it to someone I can, if I don't want to then I don't have to.If I can't access their page/profile/site without giving the info, then it is my choice, if I feel it is a trustworthy site, or I want in that badly, I will freely give the info.
I don't wish to hide my identity for the most part, but to be able to keep stalkers from finding you is different.
I don't care if law enforcement tracks me, ( I have nothing to hide) but if XXX across the ocean wants my IP he should only get it if I permit.

Please be careful.