Aaarrggh! Kind of Funny! The Cycle Repeats Itself!
Aaarrggh! Kind of Funny! The Cycle Repeats Itself!
Hey Gals:
I've been successfully maintaining NC with my N for three weeks now....and still counting : ) So, the purpose of my post is to say that NC truly works, and yes, the cycle with an N truly does follow a specific pattern. Like clockwork. In the event you haven't read my story posted a couple of weeks ago, I'll give a brief synopsis. The last contact I had with my N of two years was three weeks ago when I made the mistake of calling him only for him to answer and mock me to a friend of his while I listened. Pretty bad and disgusting. I hung up. So, I've been reading up on the message board here as well as loads of books about emotional blackmail, NPD, dangerous men, etc. in the meantime. Today, he contacted me via text to say that he hoped I was doing well and had my flat screen TV that he'd had repaired and wanted to meet up with me to give it to me. What??? Are you kidding? Three weeks ago, you literally mock me over the phone to whoever will listen and this week you're contacting me to wish me well and get together to give me my TV back? I don't think so! I would rather burn in hell than get reeled back in to get my TV. Let's call that one a loss and call it a day. I'm not replying. Does everyone agree? Isn't this just the hook to get you back and see if there is still a chain to be yanked?
But I have to say, it's kind of satisfying to see that the cycle repeats itself. He's had three weeks of NC and has realized that he's no longer part of my life. Now, he's got to figure out a way to see me. Total loser. Does he really think I would forget what happened and be willing to see him again? He's not living in the real world....
Would love to hear anyone's feedback.
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