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6 months since break-up...

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#1 Jun 10 - 8PM
sunny 523
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6 months since break-up...

But the final D&D was on Valentine's day when he and I had plans (why we did that, I don't know!) and he told me he had sex with someone else. Nice, huh?

I haven't spoken to him since March 16th. He hung up on me (still don't know why!)

Last attempt at contact was end of April. He ignored (or blocked?) my email.

He did not acknowledge my birthday May 23rd.

YET...I still think about him EVERY @#$% day.

At least the tears have stopped.

I wish he didn't haunt my head!

It's obvious that I don't haunt his.

@#!@#$%^%^!!!!

Thanks, I needed to vent!

XOXO~

Mer

Jun 10 - 10PM
wacaet
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you are doing great I think

you are doing great I think some of the cd you were experiencing is starting to recede. It just takes time and repeated reinforcement I couldn't make it w/out this board either
Jun 10 - 8PM
Steph
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Sweetie, you are very early

Sweetie, you are very early in recovery. NC for 2 months approx? is great!....but you have a ways to go yet unfortunately.....so be patient with yourself!!Be kind to yourself and continue to share your emotions here. One step, one hour at a time:) Hang in there:) We are here for you:) xoxo, Steph
Jun 10 - 8PM (Reply to #4)
sunny 523
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Steph, I don't know what I

Steph, I don't know what I would have done without this forum! Thank you for your encouragement. I will continue to need it for a while. XOXO!!!
Jun 10 - 9PM (Reply to #5)
Steph
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I don't know what I would

I don't know what I would have done without this forum either! and I am so happy you are finding support here:) I needed it for a looooooooooong time......I'm 18 months out of the "relationship".....and just recently starting to feel "whole" again.....just to give you some perspective on what a long process this is! lol You will likely find yourself going through many "strong" days" versus many " down days" over the next while.....and I just want you to know that this is normal and to be expected. There is NO shame in needing support, and whatever emotions come up for you in this time, there is NO shame in that either. We understand, we are here for you. This is a safe place to vent and share. Baby steps will get you to the final destination:) xoxo, Steph
Jun 10 - 8PM
Hunter
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Mer

It hurts but let the truth set you free! He's a jackoff! Hunter
Jun 10 - 8PM (Reply to #2)
sunny 523
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Love ya Hunter!!

Love ya Hunter!!