couldnt have put it any better myself, and to be free is great, no shake,s when i used to hear the car pulling up, no churning stomach when he was banging on about his favorite subject [him] and when i went to speak, he would say shut up and dont interupt, free free free, from all that marriage bliss NOT!
Today, I can go to the store and if i want to stay an extra 15 minutes i can without getting yelled at.
Today, I dont have to find his ultra thin Trojans or enzite male enhancement wrappers in his coat pocket anymore.
Today, I dont have anyone telling me what a looser idiot i am.
Today, I dont have to listen to his gay techo DJ music anymore. God that was aweful. Nick named him DJ Dave.
Today, i can eat what i want, sleep when i want, buy what i want.
Today, I have a sense of peace and contentment that i could never reach while i was there.
Yes im am free too. And its the best feeling in the world..xoxoox
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17. Hitting "reject" when he calls and letting it go to voicemail...so empowering.
18. Buying the foods YOU like without criticism.
19. Planning your day around YOU.
20. Spending time with your child on activities he/she likes, even if they are "boring" like coloring.
21. Not having to hear, see the snake.
22. Ability to surround yourself with positive, beautiful people that would not have included you because of the N.
23. Your carreer can now flourish.
ladies...continue
Not having to respond to his 100 text messages a day
Not having to look interested in his latest inane hobby
Not having to have to put everything in the kitchen back in its "pre-designated" location on the kitchen shelf, or get yelled at.
Not having to have a 2 minute shower to save water!
Not having to listen to him say "you don't trust me" when he lies to me about the OW.
I'm becoming me again, because I missed me. That's the best one of all.
I don't have to watch him shove big handfuls of cheese down his throat and get it all over the floor. Gross.
Don't have to watch his lips moving as he lies to me.
Don't have to EVER experience another holiday with him where I get no gift or a cheap thoughtless present.
Don't have to watch his stupid TV shows.
Don't have to listen to him tell stories about his dumb job and stupid friends.
Don't have to hear dull boring stories about his X's and how much he loved them and all the dumb things they said and did. Probably all lies anyway.
Don't have to sit by and watch him blow our money on himself.
Don't have to hide my things so he won't steal them.
Don't cry anymore over his cruel comments and lack of normal affection.
Don't have constant home repairs from his angry outbursts.
Have God back in my life, it's difficult to maintain a close relationship with God when you are living with the devil.
Have the respect of my friends back.
Have a quiet happy household.
Have my self respect back and a desire to reach my goals.
God bless,
Goldie
1. don't have to listen to him time and time again tell realtors when we were looking for a house together how all his wives did him wrong and he lost all his money because of them the poor dear, did he ever look at himself, heavens no........2.Go to the bathroom without shutting the door i won't get gross on you , but complain real loudly if I passed some gas, like it was the biggest deal in the world........3. Listen to his double standards of what women should do to be ladylike but he can do anything he f**** feels like...............4.Wondered why i did not want to live with him again, i did for 4 months, because every evening he would get a weird look on his face and say, "I think you should leave now....5 Get all hurt like a poor 4 year old little boy when I got maD at him for waking me up in the middle of the night to screw around, always his timetable..6. Was so over controlling to the point that early on after he hooked me, he would get angry/mad at me for shutting a light off shortly after I put it on, saying it was making his electricity bills too high!!I could go on but i know You folks have had ENOUGH!!!!.
number 5 is soo true, I used to feel guilty when I would refuse sex on his schedule because I was made to feel like it was my problem or how he used surfing porn as an excuse because I wouldnt want sex so late at night after I had already gone to bed.
wholeagain, You are the
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nc
Ewwwww. I really hope you
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baddream
Today, I can go to the store
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Betty
NC positives
More!
Hahaha. See the snake....to
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I don't have to bang my head
I am becoming me again.
almostlydia
Maybe instead of your name
I love that one
No more disapointing sex. No
No more sex with him telling
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Yes..
no more...
gross
Ewww. hahah only one way to
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LMAO
No more putting up with...............
onwith my life
Playedwithfire