2 days NC

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#1 Nov 16 - 3PM
eleanorjean1990
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2 days NC

Hello everyone.

I haven't posted anything for a while due to trying to sort my head out..i have been reading all of your posts and the wonderful advice being given back to them,and it's helped so much. Thank you all.

I recieved a horrible abusive text 48 hours ago and ignored. I am feeling ok in myself, keeping myself busy, seeing friends and it's helping me take my mind off of him and his evil ways.

I do love him, but i no longer am IN love with him and i think that's a good start.

Thanks for all your support.

El x

Nov 16 - 8PM
ruby01 (not verified)
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eleanorjean

Now you're starting to experience what happens when you keep breaking NC. It NEVER gets better. Remember that. Whatever he said this last time will be 10x worse next time Protect yourself. Believe what the members here tell you, Okay? Stay NC forever. xxx, Ruby
Nov 16 - 5PM
nancyh
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2 days NC (and counting) -

2 days NC (and counting) - Great Job! Stay strong! Nan

Nan

Nov 16 - 4PM
eleanorjean1990
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Gravity

Thank you for your reply :) Yes i will keep reading and stay close to here. If he does get back in contact and keep up the abuse i will block him from my phone. he's shown his true colours. I'm ok though surprisingly xxxx
Nov 16 - 4PM
Gravity
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eleanorjean

KEEP GOING! Guaranteed if you don't block him you'll hear from him. These nut bags rarely let go of people that have made them feel powerful at any time. It's the drug they're addicted to. Blocking helps because you won't even know if he's contacted you and therefore won't be upset if he contacts you. If you're not ready for that, that's fine too. Just stay here, keep reading, and keep pushing forward! xoxoxox hugs to you! I BELIEVE IN YOU!!
Nov 16 - 4PM
eleanorjean1990
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Blessed and Hunter

Thank you. Blessed,i will block if the texts etc continue.thank you for your advice. I have a feeling he's gone for good though and i'm fine with that. x
Nov 16 - 4PM (Reply to #4)
Hunter
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He's not gone .. He's a

He's not gone .. He's a Narc.. You know how you get rid of him??? Delete,Delete,Delete.. If you fail you'll here me roar.. Hunter
Nov 16 - 4PM (Reply to #5)
highlander
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And I promise you,

And I promise you, Eleanorjean, you DON'T want that to happen...
Nov 16 - 4PM
Blessed
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May I suggest that you block

May I suggest that you block him on your cell? I have AT&T and use parental controls to block text and calls. He will not know that his texts are blocked and you will not know that he has texted or tried to call. Another beautiful reality, if you are prone to impulsive texting, is that it also blocks you from texting or calling the numbers you include. $5 a month Block him and protect your heart from more abuse. Blessed
Nov 16 - 4PM
Hunter
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Ok keep going!!! Hunter

Ok keep going!!! Hunter