1 week - NC working so far
1 week - NC working so far
Well, in one week, I've gotten about three emails asking me questions.... I responded curtly to the first one and didn't respond to the 2nd two. And haven't heard anything more.
What a huge contrast to the 5 - 10 phone calls/day; 5 texts and probably 20 emails from just two weeks ago!
I'm sad to see the end of what I thought was the closest relationship of my entire life....
My last email to him said "I value our friendship and our relationship, but I have a feeling that if I'm out of your life tomorrow, you won't even think about me, and that is the saddest part". Of course, he can't say anything back to me that my lifetime investment in him meant anything to him....because I've been D&D.
Someone who I have spent 22 years in a close relationship with, thousands and thousands of hours of one on one time and sharing a lifetime of my (and I thought his) most innermost thoughts and feelings.... its a killer....and a waste of those precious moments.
The funny thing is, I ran into one of my bankers today and he mentioned that N called him yesterday and discussed some internal negotiations that the owner was having with another investment firm. The only way he could know this was to have called the other investment firm to get the inside scoop about what me and the owner were doing and then called the banker to give him an update! Very weird...like he is trying to manage investor relations without the involvement of the owner or me!
I think this is just part of his:
- always be the "nice guy" and appear to be supportive (I still can't tell whether it is for the company's benefit or his personal benefit)
- leverage as many of these relationships as possible for future work
I think he is still looking for a job...which is why he is doing this. And the funny thing is, whenever I point blank ask him what he is doing...is he working...or looking for a job...I can NEVER even get a straight answer on this very simple question. It is like it is all a mystery so he can keep himself interesting or some demented thing.
Keep it up! Over time, you
neveragain5
Keep it up loveofmylife,,NC be strong
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