"being friends?"
"being friends?"
I have recently been thru what I thought was a hoover, but for him he said it was like he was talking to his best friend.
We have been separated almost a year, I went NC in August and we have 2 children together. His rebound post me ended and he called me first. I felt bad for him when he reached out to me and I as well was starting to enjoy the attention that I was rec'ving that I had became to live with for so long.
The past few weeks we have shared some old time conversations and comforting affection and it felt weird but welcoming.
That came to an end last night as i questioned what the hell was going on? I explained that couples that separate don't do the things that we have been doing, but no physical activities were engaged in.
One of our conversations that just wont leave me was he felt he had not only lost his wife, but his best friend too. I agreed with that feeling, saying i miss my best friend also. He said that when he saw me, he wanted to hug me and that he was talking to me like his best friend.
So... my question is why did he put me in the friend/best friend categorie? Like did he really think with all our history we could be friends?
Today I'm feeling hurt, that I thought there was something more to his flirting and charm. But also relieved to know Im not in the web of lies anymore, and that I'm way better off on my own even I'm feeling alone and miss the good stuff. :(
Thank you All!
Playedwithfire
He is not friends with ANY of his exs
"I was NEVER your friend"
They can do exactly the same
With a narc, if they want to
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God sometimes removes a person from your life for your protection. Don't run after them.
Being friends
Wow, myst...
spinning
"lets be friends " .. "i miss
Scoop!
Playedwithfire
Playedwithfire
Thanks Michele115
Playedwithfire
Friends
that is true Ideal
Playedwithfire
Yeah, let's be
Hi, played...
spinning
Hi Spinning
Playedwithfire
Oh no!
Yes, I've gotten the can we
wiser, agreed
Playedwithfire
I would like to be his friend
Redhead1