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First time after a year

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#1 Mar 19 - 10AM
ewa
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First time after a year

First time after i have broke up with exN i felt attracted to somebody. And this is such a great feeling, at least it pushes the memmories of N far , far away.
He lives far a way, he was just visiting the city. But at least it gave me hope that i will be able to love again.

Mar 20 - 11AM
ewa
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Mar 20 - 8AM
ewa
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Help me :). I cant stop

Help me :). I cant stop thinking of him, we have been kissing all night and it was so nice. We both agreed we want to see each other again. So far no sms from him. I will survive if he doesnt want to see me again, but i was wondering if any of you have any experiance with german guys? I heard they are not to much into flirting...I dont want to contact him frist and look desperate :(.
Mar 20 - 10AM (Reply to #11)
Hunter
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EWA

My Narc is German, You don't want this guy calling you 5 times a day that means you'll have found another Narc. Slow moving is how this should be. Idealk
Mar 20 - 11AM (Reply to #12)
ewa
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Thanks :). I don't want him

Thanks :). I don't want him to call me 5 times a day, I would just love to get one sms from him :)
Mar 20 - 10AM (Reply to #9)
jen79
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ewa I am german

Its true, they are not much into flirting, but dont get trapped into that sort of thinking. Listen to your gut anyway. When i dated my narc, I heard in us and canada, you just date and date and date and then you get married, and I thought his BS has someting to do with this culture. BS. Down the surface they are all the same. If they want you, they will contact you. If not, then not.
Mar 20 - 11AM (Reply to #10)
ewa
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Yes you are right. If he

Yes you are right. If he wants to keep in touch he will. I can not even think about my exN anymore because I think about this cute German so much :)))
Mar 20 - 12AM
IncognitoBurrito
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:o)

Good for you! I love hearing things like this, it helps so much. To know there's life after the N... well darn!
Mar 19 - 2PM
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ewa

Good for you!!! We all deserve love. I'm glad you are opening up to the idea. I myself am not there yet and don't know if I will be for a long time. But please keep us posted and you give us all hope. Thanks!
Mar 19 - 2PM (Reply to #5)
Hunter
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Happy

Take a bite out of life!
Mar 19 - 3PM (Reply to #6)
Happy1
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Idealk

Lol.... Been there, done that! I'm learning to live again thanks to you!
Mar 19 - 2PM
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ewa

Good for you!!! We all deserve love. I'm glad you are opening up to the idea. I myself am not there yet and don't know if I will be for a long time. But please keep us posted and you give us all hope. Thanks!
Mar 19 - 2PM (Reply to #2)
ewa
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Happy i was thinking am not

Happy i was thinking am not there yet till yesterday. Even if this guy will never contact me again it something great what happened. I belive we just need to meet the right person to be able to feel something to somebody again. And i am prettty sure it can happen to you too in the shorter time you expect :)
Mar 21 - 6PM (Reply to #3)
Redhead1
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I am so happy for you. To see

I am so happy for you. To see someone take another step is inspiring. After 22 years I am actually learning to be a little flirty again. Nothing serious, just fun. It was hard for me to adjust to male attention. I admit at first it felt weird-odd-foriegn. I am warming up slowly-at my own speed. No thoughts on dating yet. Maybe some thoughts lol, but not really looking. I like being alone for now:)