When he acts normal, I feel crazy
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Mar 3 - 6PM
When he acts normal, I feel crazy
My xN has the ability to act normal and seem normal for short periods of time, which makes me start to doubt his narciness and my perceptions. Right now he is doing and saying all the right things and for some reason tonight it upsets me. Help! I think it is a combination of cognitive dissonance, and the thought again , can he be different?, can he change? I have a laundry list of horrendous things he has done as well and him pretty much telling me what he is, so why does this recent "normal" behavior make me upset?
Clueless...scroll down and note: Moments of Clarity
I also want to add for the chemically dependent cases...
A LOT of good info in this
Oh and have no doubt he will
Trulybroken
Oh don't be so sure about
*huff*
IncognitoBurrito
He won't be back in the near
cluelessuntilnow
Intermittent Reinforcement
That is a great site! Thanks
Clueless
michelle115
Clueless I just read your story...
We have child and it is a
I understand you have a child
clueless
honestly, I don't even know
The targeting clueless
I am just writing off the top
Writing off the top of your head is good!
And now that I think about
Okay I will need to answer
Because you are still holding
I know, Sickofit. Feels weird
Right there is proof he is a
It is this feeling of "why is
Clueless
SOI