I Really Like This Guy but....

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#1 Feb 10 - 12PM
ImStrong
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I Really Like This Guy but....

Im to sh. Where in the same french class in college...we give eachother eye contact but thats yhe farthest it goes. We have oue last class monday. I want to slip him a note with my number on it saying text me but I dont know never done that and never made the first move before. I mean if a guy likes.you he should make a move first right? I dont know maybe he has a gf. help ladies

Feb 10 - 2PM
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Heres my advice, take it or leave it. I have two sons, guys are shy too! They dont want to be rejected just like us. My son waited 2 months before asking a girl out. Ive learned some much about men from them, they (normal men) just handle feelings differently. Go for it, in french:), very cute idea IdealNYC! And if he has a gf, he will be flattered anyway. I would. And if he says no, dont take it personal. Just say ok, not meant to be and leave it be. If he doesnt, :-). Way cool! And coffee or lunch first...not dinner or nighttime date if you are the one asking. Keep it light and simple. Just my opinin.
Feb 10 - 9PM (Reply to #17)
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Thankyou Gina you helped me

Thankyou Gina you helped me so much. I know guys are a bit shy too. K ef ts see ed hat hapoens. I hope I get a chance to speak to him. You gaks helped me a looot...i just dont want to miss this opertunity..thats my biggest fear..him leaving class early or simething lije that..welk see x

"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess

Feb 10 - 12PM
Hunter
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OMG

OMG I'm old, can't you just strike up a conversation and ask him to lunch or coffee? It would be cute if you asked in French! Text him?? Seem cold to me! Cut to the chase. Idealk
Feb 10 - 1PM (Reply to #2)
ImStrong
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Omg thats so cool...mondays

Omg thats so cool...mondays my last chance to ask him on our finals. He may leave before me I really want to make this happen but im soo scared..why dont you think he wont speak to me?..we only lock eyes and kind of look for eachother..uhhh I want him. Im A try the french thing should I right it on a note with my number?

"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess

Feb 10 - 1PM (Reply to #10)
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Im strong , i hate to be a

Im strong , i hate to be a party pooper but there is a reason he hasnt come up to talk to you . Sigh .. if a man likes you he will ask you out ... even if they are really shy ! Im not saying he dosnt like the look of you .. no way im i .. but i am saying if he hasnt asked you out he probely has a girlfriend already . Like you he knows this is his last class with you and i hate to say it but if he dosnt come up to talk to you in the last lesson you have to chalk this up to experience ... I have my fingers crossed for you , it sounds like you really want this i really hope he talks to you .xx
Feb 10 - 1PM (Reply to #11)
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Yes scoop I th hink that

Yes scoop I th hink that to..oh gosh the cuties are always taken. The thing is at the end of clas today I left first and he was talking to the proffesser then I saw him behind me kind of like talking out loud to himself. Then he started walking real close behind me and humming outloud. It www as like he was reaching for my attention.uuuhhh. The thing is im black and hes white I dont know much white guys who are bold. But I do suspect a gf. I mean he is cute. But I still sant to talk to him.i wont if he has a girl

"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess

Feb 10 - 2PM (Reply to #12)
Hunter
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I am strong

As my favorite Aunt Rosie always said " if you don't ask the question you won't know the answer" Idealk
Feb 10 - 2PM (Reply to #13)
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I got it and I wikk..luv u

I got it and I will..luv u ideal9nyc...you know im in nyc to you could call him for my shy ass lol..th hank you so much..urrr im scared lol but uh m a get some balls and big girl draws ..hugsx

"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess

Feb 10 - 2PM (Reply to #14)
Hunter
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Strong

I'm in Chicago Narc is in NYC. Narc Warning, Be very careful of A bald man, white dog, walking down5th Ave with his mother! Yuck!
Feb 12 - 9AM (Reply to #15)
venuslovedpluto
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IdealK9NYC

Beware of A bald man, white dog, walking down 5th Ave with his Mom.....ROFL!!!!
Feb 10 - 1PM (Reply to #3)
Hunter
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Honestly because I'm old I'm

Honestly because I'm old I'm bold. All he can say is buzz off right! Just go up to him get there early and introduce yourself, talk about the upcoming test and see how it goes. Then just ask him out! What's the big deal? Do you want me to call him for you? :) You're so cute ! Idealk good luck
Feb 10 - 2PM (Reply to #4)
ImStrong
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Lol please do im scurred..i

Lol please do im scurred..i should of said something today uhhh..its going to be hard on monday we come in different times and after the test we leave different times fter the test. Would I look weird if I waited for him nonchalantly afte the test?

"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess

Feb 10 - 2PM (Reply to #5)
Hunter
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Strong

How bad do you want to meet him? Just talk to him. I'll be disappointed inyou if you don't! Keep me posted!
Feb 10 - 9PM (Reply to #6)
ImStrong
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I want him bad.. And I dont

I want him bad.. And I dont want to dissapoint you. You helped too much..lol to your narc in nyc..his description is hard to miss lol hope I dont ever see that one lol

"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess

Feb 11 - 7AM (Reply to #7)
Hunter
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Strong

Good Luck Today!
Feb 11 - 7AM (Reply to #8)
ImStrong
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I dont have class today..its

I dont have class today..its monday..thanks though xx

"In the fiery pit lays a man with two faces.One is the face of a God and the other a face of the Devil.Beware He lurks your souls.Keep one hand on your heart and the other hand over your eyes. Let him walk pass you not into you.Ghost of love will possess

Feb 11 - 7AM (Reply to #9)
Hunter
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Strong

Oh, Then Have a Narc Free enjoyable weekend!!