ExN contacting me again asking for his personal papers - should I ignore or just send?

I wish I had your strength. What you did does show the type of person you are, how kind & caring you can be to someone who has done such damage to you. I wish I had that strength right now. I haven't thrown the last things away because they are things that I think would be important to him - though I just don't know, they'd be important to me if it were me. I honestly tried to get it all back to him but he's just kept playing games saying he'll come & pick them up, then asking me to mail it but not giving me an address. And I got so tired & hurt that I gave up trying but I still couldn't throw them away because they are things that should mean a lot to someone. But now he's finally asking again I just don't want to even think about it - I'm really getting that feeling again that I'm being drawn into a game again. We did this round so many times with handing over his things & he never did the actions or gave me the information that would let me complete the deal. I truly admire what you did. I wish I had your strength. I've tried so hard to be a good person in this situation & stop doing things I knew I'd regret [and gees DO I regret some of the crazy & pathetic behaviour I fell into early in D&D] but now I'm just so tired & this has triggered me heaps this time. Sigh....! Thank you so much for sharing with me. And you're very right about the golden rule & that's certainly something I think I'm losing sight of in this situation - it is MY choice & I should figure out what choice will be true to ME. Thank you :) Ava xx

You're right, they are his. And I really don't want to be petty or trying to get revenge - gave up on that a while ago when I realised I was just damaging myself more. This has just really triggered me so much. And I don't like it....Sigh! You're definitely right about no communication though. Ah fingers crossed I can something about this.... Ava xx