update

Hi everyone, and newbies too...

I am telling ya, it pays to go NC and stay NC!

It's been awhile since I have been here and it is a result
of several factors, but the main was I needed space to heal.

In the time I have taken to heal, I have aquired a new job
((And will no longer be working for the N boss anymore!!!
YAY!!!))

Seems when I left the N I was in relationship with I had lost
my tolerance for any N's or BS ;)

I have been offered and accepted a job in our hospital's
Lab Dept. Totally out of my comfort zone and learning
something totally new to me, but it's refreshing to be
treated with respect and digity... makes me want to treat
myself that way too ;)

So I didn't burn a bridge with my employer (worked there 6 1/2
years) I am hanging on to help them during the busy xmas
season, working both jobs right now and LOTS of hours.

I am feeling more confident, more assured and secure about my path,
my self and my furture.

I hope all is well with everyone.... and I am telling ya,
staying NC and taking whatever time you need to heal in whatever
way you need pays off :)

OH! ~ and it pays to be nice to people... seems the woman
that came into work and that I chose to be nice to for the
last 6 1/2 years just happened to be the Director of the
Lab Dept ;)

Much love and well wishes for all and thanks for being there for
me when I couldn't be there for myself :)

PEACE.... and NC NC NC NC NC!!