I have a question
I have a question
I've noticed that a few people on here have mentioned being fortunate enough to have moved beyond this enough and established new relationships that seem to be working.
I am so emotionally raw and am determined at the moment to stay by myself for the rest of my life. And that's on a good day. On the bad days.... I am scared to death of never ever finding love again and even thinking that if I were to find it... I could never trust it.
So intellectually I know I won't be ready for a very long time. Would be dangerous to me in terms of finding another like this or worse.... but also terribly unfair to a decent man as I'm kind of a wreck right now and imagine that's not going away anytime soon.
But in the interests of having some kind of hope for the future... how did you do it if you did? Not so much how did you meet them... but when you did meet that person, how did you trust it enough to try it again? We all know there are no guarantees in life... but I just don't think I could live through this kind of torment again. And it sometimes seems to me that avoiding it altogether would be easier.... I know it's the stage i'm in and the place I'm at. But it's been on my mind as I read some of the posts and I was just wondering if anybody had some stories to share on that?
Does that make any sense?
Finallydone
Marie
Moving on.
Same Here!
laura & baddream
I meant Renew
technology
So Crazy
New relationships
RenewD
congratulations RenewD
http://hubpages.com/hub/Married-to-a-Narcissist?preview
nolongercontrolled
Thank you
It makes more sense than
finallydone
I do not have an answer but
finallydone
Barbara