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#1 Oct 26 - 12PM
desprathousewife
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Yeah WHATEVER :)

For those who know my story, I went to court almost 2 weeks ago and my N took a plea bargain and pleaded guilty to assaulting me.

My friend called around this afternoon, she told me that he has been spreading rumours saying I was too scared to go on the witness stand? WTF, this baffles me as I didn't get the chance, he'd already pleaded GUILTY gawdamnit, but also, what would that do to make HIM look better? If I'd been scared to testify, I wouldn't have turned up surely? Him pleading guilty is his admitting to what he did?

I guess I shouldn't even be worrying about such total crap at this point, it's just rather confused me to say the least????

Oh well, narcs will be narcs and as long as I have my restraining order in place (please all cross your fingers for me) I can close this dismal chapter in my life, break free from this chrysalis, spread my new colourful wings and become a butterfly at last :)

Ok, I'm an eternal optimist, as long as I'm no longer a pupa it's a step in the right direction eh?

Oct 26 - 3PM
julia29
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Ups did a mistake posting a

Ups did a mistake posting a new topic here..
Oct 26 - 1PM
Used
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dhw

this is what they do... when narc was waiting to go to court, he drumed up as many witnesses as he could.... on the day he was sentanced he said to me after.. my witness didnt turn up so i said stop lying, i was in the court in the puplic gallery...you had pleaded guilty...thats why witnesses wernt there, he looked and said i didnt see you in the court ,i said you wernt ment to... myexh was in and out of courts and prisons all our married life... narc knew this but still tried to mug me off... take it from me dhs, no one believes a word they say...plus you know diffrent and who cares...you will get this crap for a while, cos one you stuck to your word and went thru with it, and 2 he wants you to get pissed of enough to lose your cool and start....so he can say she is the one who should be banned from coming near me....all tricks mate...all tricks.ps and by saying you didnt turn up.. he is saying cos she was too afraid to turn up they found me guilty.so he was a little innocent...yeh right..
Oct 26 - 1PM (Reply to #6)
desprathousewife
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Good thinking used

I never looked at it that way, he may be trying to piss me off so I lose my cool. Woo hoo, I'm cool as a cucumber now :) Don't get any ideas ladies, I'm speaking metaphorically. The thought of a cucumber sets my heart racing too, its been a while LOL
Oct 26 - 12PM
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Confusing

Evidence of the disordered thinking of a desperate Narc trying to regain "control". He's doing a good job convincing everyone that he is a freak and an idiot. I talk about the smear campaign of my exN in the little town we lived in until I finally left almost three years ago. His smear against me was considerable, but what he did to HIMSELF was even worse. He was the last to know, being a Narc, of course, that his attempts to make ME look bad made my case against him even better.
Oct 26 - 1PM (Reply to #2)
desprathousewife
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Briseis YES

I believe mine may be doing exactly the same here. From everything I've heard (apart from the OW who lives around the corner) he seems to be turning everyone against him. His friday night friend (one of his ONLY friends), was there for him at first, but I've now been told that he doesn't speak to him anymore. Seems that when he didn't side with him for beating me, he's threatened to start a smear campaign against him too. Looks like he's slowly and surely digging his own grave here. He's already dead and buried to me!
Oct 26 - 1PM (Reply to #3)
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dhw

i screaming with laughter when you said HIS FRIDAY NIGHT FREIND....f;;king friday night freind..... that sounds so pathetic.... i dont think i have ever had a day or a night weekly freind....i am sorry i cannot stop laughing....its like saying/... oh little billy goes to his little friends on a certain night of the week...i am so sorry to laugh but this has so tickled me... i feel hysterical...
Oct 26 - 1PM (Reply to #4)
desprathousewife
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LOL

You've set me off now too :) :) Apparently his friday night friend doesn't want him to go out and play with him anymore. Little Billy? pmsl Billy no mates from now on!!!!!