"You challenge my mind, babe. Not many women can do that."
and, on the day he disappeared.....
"you are a nice girl. I would rather end things now and have you hate me for five days than to wait a year and have you hate me forever."
"I know this is wrong but I feel like (referring to my family) thats my family not his"
Interesting how they think you are "theirs" they just let others barrow you for awhile. One time he told my friend "she's mine and ill be back for her when I want her." and I guess he meant cause hes back 15 years later
Me and N are done,stay the fu## away from my family! He is so cunning,still tries to call my mom and dad and tell them i'm crazy....they'll actually question me about things every once in a while! I finally lost it the other day,i told my mom to not talk to him! I said,what don't you get about him being a psychopath, him screwing craigslist hookers while we were together,verbally and physically abusing me,sleeping with my girlfriends,slandering my name all over town,makes anything he says worth listening to???? After talking to my parents he'll say things like 'even your parents think youre crazy'...then i'll question my parents and they're like,'we would never say anything like that,he just called to talk to his daughter while i was babysitting',he still has me questioning things..i hate it....i told my parents to remember that I'M their daughter and they need to have loyalties to only me and NC him too!!! Sorry for getting off the topic,but your comment about your family being yours hit a nerve with me.....
During Round 1 with him (in my twenties) my parents thought he was such a "nice boy " said and did all the right things until they watched there very outgoing daughter turn into someone they didnt even know anymore. Dark and Depressed but they truly got the picture when one night I went to the movies with my mom and who is a couple of rows back sitting with a girl? Yep you got it. Thats when my parents began to open their eyes to what he was doing to me. At first they used to think I was just paranoid.
however the family he was referring to was me, and my child. He said he didnt have anything against my husband but when he saw our pictures couldnt help but think "thats my family not his" Well Gee I would hope that you wouldnt have anything against my husband since you left me and have been gone for 15 years. Let clueless and I be a lesson to everyone that these people really do come back they are never gone forever. You think you are strong and can speak to them on a "friendly" level and that you are strong enough to keep them at arms length but your NOT. I cant believe I let penetrate my heart and mind again. I feel like such and IDIOT!
can you believe this: Years ago he told me he f ing hated me. I brought that up to him saying that I believed he meant that all those years ago with the way he was currently treating me. His reponse:
"Thats the most hateful thing I have ever heard. Stop it now. Its not fair the way you treat me."
EXCUSE ME!!! THATS WHAT YOU SAID TO ME!!! AND SOMEHOW YOU ARE OFFENDED BY IT?????
I feel my blood pressure elevating. I going to return to calmness now.
"My Ex is white trash Im still in love with you because of the way you were raised" I mean really because of the way I was raised please!" what a freakin cheese ball!
"I like my women like i like my coffee, with nothing in it"...huh??
Thats a new take on an old saying. So were "Its with nothing"?
OMG. Get it right Chester the molester
I just smiled as usual..ugh
only one way to go...Forward (tm?)
Baby you've always been an exception. (I think I just threw up in my mouth a little)
I have so many but Im kinda afraid to post becuase they are so specific. Oh WTF who cares what he thinks anyway
After my N and I met I asked him what was he thinking the first time he saw me. He said he felt like he was the snake and I was the mouse and I was moving really fast like I knew I was cornered. When I got his first phone call he seemed a bit like a stalker and then he charmed me with his poetic lines.
Oh I have one for you!!!!! Please do not be offended.....but this is something I will never forget and this sentence made me realize how freaky he really is. O.k. Ready? Here goes.......
Narc says....... "can we have sex for one last time before you leave" aka take the kids and move out after 10 yrs, 3 kids..
I say....."Narc, please don't ask me anymore to have sex with you, it is too confusing and I can't do it".
So, I proceed to start my day, last day in the house, moving people were going to be there soon.....I walk back into the bedroom and there he is, in bed obviously aroused, and looks at me and goes, "I'm sorry honey, but I still have to take care of this"......MEANING his "aroused state"........ I just about vomitted. I will NEVER EVER EVER EVER forget that EVER!!!!!!
And keep this in mind.......this is the very day I am moving the 3 children and myself out of the family home that WE JUST BUILT.... OUR DREAM HOME!!!! He wasn't upset that I was taking his 2, 8 and 13 yr old away.......nope, just concerned about his hard on. I feel like cussing right now.
Oh here's another dandy that just hit me.......At the end when I accused him of also being a pervert, he explained to me that since we had separated and weren't living together, he was no longer waking up aroused and that "all went away", meaning his desire to screw everyday, every minute..... "Honey, it had everything to do with you and my love for you". That is the pathetic quote, and I'm not kidding. blah blah blah ...... So, this is precisely why the day I told him to get the hell out of my way with his stupid erection, and to leave me the hell alone, he already had his next source lined up. No kidding. They were screwing in my new home, the night the kids and I moved out. Yep. What a freak.
yep
Here's another one.....
Ha!
anyone
After hitting on numerous
wish i had your friends...
Stay sweet
and another...
To sick of it
Sweet Sam
Now this doesnt really fit cheesy BUT
as we were divorcing
Lol...that selective memory
only one way to go...Forward (tm?)
another nice one
cheesy bs
and here's another....
"I like my women like i like
only one way to go...Forward (tm?)
"with nothin in it..."
How about...
sick of it
What was I thinking?
Cheesy BS!
yes i had the you never care about
sick of it...
Oh I have one for you!!!!!
aroused
vomiting...tigger73
Aceonelady
And keep this in
What a creep!! Why are they
Oh here's another dandy that