Help with What to Do about Divorcing the Narcissist
Help with What to Do about Divorcing the Narcissist
I have been married to him for 7 years....it's a total horror story and will take a large amount of time and effort to tell the whole story. As everyone says, it started out to be wonderful....I thought we were made for each other. Talk about love being blind! I should have gotten the first clue when he was offended by a woman at my church who told me about how she was physically abused after her marriage and how careful I should be. He said to me "I would NEVER do that" then when we got back to my house, he wanted to go home because he did not feel comfortable after hearing that!! I actually talked him out of it like a fool! I am planning on serving him with divorce papers after 7 years, next month. There is a lot of anxiety thinking about this because I know what he is capable of. I will write more later. But the gist if it is that, in the state of Florida, unless there has been obvious physical abuse, there can be no injunction to get him out of my house. There has been everything BUT physical abuse, and he came very close to that! He will not leave. More on that later.
This book helped me a lot
My N was physically abusive too
"Cry now because you lost him or cry later because you have him."
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Hi Donna, Wow, I'm so sorry
Hi Lisa - thanks for the reply
Hi Donna, Good for you!