Broken NC

He did you a favor; I would have preferred that my XN spoke his mind rather than the way he stringed me for over a year. I would have preferred that he spoke to me with the truth. They don't have to be an ass about it but consider the source; that is who they really are. You may not be able to see it this way today, but he did you a favor. Now, everything that he said is CRAP! You are a sweetheart and that explains why you had the need to reach out and check on him. This is what separates us from them, we love and feel; something they will never be able to experience. Many hugs sweetheart and no more calling!

I am so sorry that this has happened to you. My xn has said some horrible things to me too but not after all of that time. I would be so hurt if after a year and when I am starting to feel good about myself he drug me down again. Dont let him see you hurting! He is horrible!

"he says he doesn't hate me"........ liar, he hates everything, he's full of hate and envy. I'm glad his life is shit and he has no money, although he's probably kidding himself that life is great and something fantastic is just around the corner. They're so deluded. Don't take his comments on board just laugh at them and him for being so pathetic.

What a complete frieking ass. I cant believe the level of crap we have all to endure.. Poor you to be spoken to like that. It must have made you feel terrible... Not satisfied with the damage he has done or the energy he has already taken from you but he want's some more an all.. You should use this to remind yourself why you got out and why your better off. What a complete t**ser. I think he did that to you to hurt you because he is down on his luck, he has noting and no-one... your not a source of available supply anymore so he has no 'use' for you... so in his head, he can diss you because to him, at least hurting you is better than feeling like you are the winner. Cos in his head its all a freaking competetion. SO he made you feel bad about yourself because thats all he has left to get some kind of energy back form you, to drain you and damage you.. ... He suks... what a looser.. Yea use this to remind yourself never to ever let your guard down again and to remember that after the charming and the wooing and pretence that he might have used once... he is just a nasty bit of the devils work... that is not worth your attention or your even your pitty... Stay strong as you can.. Tomorrow is another day... without him in your life ruining it... x

What a complete ass! I hope you aren't feeling too down over his words. Always consider the source. His words mean shit. hugs

What horrible things to hear. I am so sorry. Peace. J

Youre narc sounds like a complete piece of crap . You would think after a year and a half he could muster some charm .. What a looser . I guess that we have all gone back for a second look (my case 6 diffrent looks ) just to make sure we havnt missed anything . Dont beat yourself up , i have followed youre story and i understand how you could think "no one can be that evil " and low and behold you can safely say "yes they bleeding can !" Chin up ... i tryed looking up "dont let the basterds grind you down " in dutch but i couldnt find it so i will say it in english Dont let the basterds grind you down . Big love scoop x

I'm sorry you had that experience, aceone. What prompted you to contact him again? I hope next time you'll post on the board instead of going in that direction, which is always a dead end. Perhaps that can help you manage the thoughts of feeling sorry for someone so cruel and hateful. He already feels sorry for him, so you don't need to. ;)