Psychic Connection To N
Psychic Connection To N
Hi everyone...I just read a mention in one of the posts here that the idea of being "psychically connected" to an N has come up before in conversations..I wasn't around for this, so if it's okay, if others would like to retell their experiences and feelings, I'd love to hear them.
I am not prone to the supernatural, but I DO believe that people exude and can project energy. I don't think it's necessarily "magic" but a real biological phenomenon. Also I will serve up another possible answer.
My N was highly emotional. Mostly in a negative way, constantly calculating, trying to figure things out..sometimes selfishly, sometimes because of anxiety.. like he was always trying to evaluate what people thought of him, how to react, what to do, what was happening..very high nervous energy. He was very prone to stress and had OCD tendencies.
Probably because of the high emotions, I found myself becoming a "receiver" to it. Since I am very sensitive to people's change of moods, and can feel it in their body language, a slight shift in posture, even something I can't even see but can just feel...my N was like a very loud radio station constantly broadcasting his mood shifts. Of course it dominated whatever time we spent together.
I remember one time after I had told him I didn't want to see him as a friend anymore, I still had some work I was completing for him. We hadn't spoken for a week, and I was out hiking by myself. The whole afternoon I had this overwhelming feeling of..not sure how to describe it..anxiety about him. Unusually intense. When I got home there was an e-mail from him needing to talk about the project, and how he was suffering from "issues" and needed comfort. I didn't ask what the "issues" were. He mentioned us getting together, even though I had told him weeks before we were done. I found the timing of the e-mail odd.
Now, in May, I haven't spoken with him for over a month. These days, when I get feelings of longing or curiousity about him, I start to question if it's a connection or just the natural feelings you'd have, regardless of how stupid or rotten the situation was..feelings of yearning, maybe some jealousy, curiousity..and this may not be psychic, just normal feelings you experience when you disconnect from someone that you are still attracted to and, good or bad, left an intense psychological mark on you.
Also, I think one has to be careful not to cater to one's ego that each and every twang of pain and emotion you experience is not him "calling out to me."
The main thing is that I am certain though, that he was projecting his feelings very strongly all the time..dominating our time together, and I felt it constantly. Whether this can carry long distance I'd like to know opinions about. Any weird coincidences out there with anyone?
Thanx
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Every so often I would ask
I have had a psychic connect with my exN,,,
definite psychic connection with the psycho.........
How do we protect ourselves from this invasion
Amazed...they want/need your very lifeblood...
psyc connection
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what hurts the most
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i'm no 'romantic'......
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wow. that makes so much
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Mirroring Examples
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The kid thing and God
Right, loveof, you must be
I experience psychic connection with N
Psychic Connection
tyger
That makes sense
I have chronic anticipation
yes
quietude and others
loveof..
I've had that happen to me
ambiguity and a VERY freaky psychic thing
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