God and karma

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May 8 - 9AM
Klarity Belle
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Empty

They will never know the feelings of empathy or compassion for another human being, they will never know what true connection with another is or feel close to anyone ever. They will never be able to look at their children's joy of life and feel fulfilled. All they have is an empty room of smoke and mirrors. I wish they came with signs on them though to protect all the innocents who become their victims. These animals are actually backed up by our legal & child protection systems to play a part in their children's downfall and thereby driving the disease of narcissism or the destruction caused by it's wake even further into our society for more generations to come. Awareness of this evil is key and we can help raise that awareness in the battle against it. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ "The deeper that sadness carves into your being, the more joy you can contain." ~ Kahlil Gibran http://www.storyofmylife.com/KLARITY4

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"The deeper that sadness carves into your being, the more joy you can contain." ~ Kahlil Gibran

"That which we do not confront in ourselves we meet as fate" ~ Carl Jung

http://www.storyofmylife.com/KLARITY4

May 7 - 11PM
janetc
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Try reading Psalm 37...a

Try reading Psalm 37...a friend of mine referred me to this who had been going through a similar trial. It says the evil shall soon be cut down like the grass, and wither like the green herb. It adds more than that...but I hear you, I want it to be NOW! I too struggle with this. Don't forget though, he is a narcissist, and his relationship will NOT be any better with the new woman than with you...once the mask comes off. His pathology is PERMANENT. It just seems like he is happy and riding off into the sunset. Hang in there!

Janet

May 8 - 5AM (Reply to #5)
Scoop
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My narc use to tell me that

My narc use to tell me that me would be happy if he had the right woman .. meaning i was not the right woman and i was the reason for his unhapppyness . This was a form of emotional torture for me as it heaped all his abuse on me , i deseved it because i was not the right woman for him , yet i was still in his bed when he use to tell me this , he would wrap his arms round me and then stick the knife in . Such sick pathology it blows my mind . He ment to hurt me like this as he did it time and time again .He enjoyed it . Will he be happy with anyone ? nah . the reason is his pathology is permanent , he has said the same things to other women and he will say the the same things again , I worry he will one day have a suicide on his hands , not me i hasen to add but someone who will not be lucky enough to serch for what is wrong with him . He boasts a host of femail friends but as far as i could tell none of them have anything to do with him , i met 2 ex girlfriends and they both had a very strange look in their eye when he walked in the room , i cant explane it it was a deep haunted look of fear and hurt , it was a brief second but it was there , i know that look. He is someone to be feared , i want to scream at everyone that he is not what he seems to be , my only thought is "truth will out " , the truth will come out in the end . He cant hide for ever . I dont know about the spritual aspect to this , if he is brain damaged and pathology is a result of a congental abnormailty then maybe god will go easy on him and karma will have him coming back as something harmless like a maggot or something .Wate a minute how did they manage to beat karma in the first place to arive back on earth this time . hmmmm ok my brain is bleeding , ill stop now . Scoop x
May 8 - 6AM (Reply to #6)
Klarity Belle
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Scoop - is NPD a spiritual disorder?

"I dont know about the spritual aspect to this" Here is a link to an article on that topic. I think I may have found it here at IAAH originally perhaps on the blog page. Today's blog article Emotional Torture is also very good and discusses the aspect of a narc's intent. Mine operates with intent no doubt about it and gets pleasure from ripping down the confidence of his own daughters. IMO he is a maggot already no need to wait for his next life to be one. http://forum.outofthefog.net/topic/7341156/1/ The deeper that sadness carves into your being, the more joy you can contain." ~ Kahlil Gibran http://www.storyofmylife.com/KLARITY4

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"The deeper that sadness carves into your being, the more joy you can contain." ~ Kahlil Gibran

"That which we do not confront in ourselves we meet as fate" ~ Carl Jung

http://www.storyofmylife.com/KLARITY4

May 8 - 2PM (Reply to #15)
Barbara (not verified)
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spiritual disorder

http://www.lisaescott.com/2010/03/16/pathological-narcissism-spiritual-disorder http://www.lisaescott.com/2009/12/17/psychological-evil-spiritual-evil-or-both ~~~~~~~~~ Moving Forward: Coaching for Victims Pathologicals Feelings buried alive never die. - Alice Miller
May 8 - 5PM (Reply to #16)
Susan32
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susan32 - WARNING

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May 8 - 8AM (Reply to #7)
Scoop
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I read the celestine

I read the celestine prophecy , it was quite intresting for me as it pointed out the diffrent ways people get energy form others, modern day exsample of the vampie storys i guess . my narc sucked me dry of energy , he sucks everyone he meets , i once said he might as well have a straw and put it in my ear to save time . when he reduced me to tears so so many times what does he make of that ? . He chose the things he said to me to hurt me, he would say i am saying theses things for your own good , and the truth hurts and thats just life , well no actualy wank stain you say what you say to me because you enjoy hurting others its what you do , you wouldnt do it other wise , i cant think of anything this man ever did that he didnt want to do so why all of a sudden his abuse is something he didnt want to do ? pull the other one . Nurture or nature , if it is nature then ill let god decide what he does with him but if its nurture .. well the gloves are off . Scoop x
May 8 - 2PM (Reply to #14)
Barbara (not verified)
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nature

its NATURE reinforced by nurture ~~~~~~~~~ Moving Forward: Coaching for Victims Pathologicals Feelings buried alive never die. - Alice Miller
May 8 - 9AM (Reply to #8)
loveofmylife
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Scoop

Same story with me. Reduced me to tears many times by saying hurtful things....i ask him why he did it...he says he was just being honest and it was for my own good and he will continue to be honest... but they were cruel, awful things. But then 2 hours later, he would be praising my virtues publically and privately - it was such a roller coaster. Because of the praising, I started to believe that it was true - that the horrible things were said to me "for my own good". But went out to dinner with my best friend a few weeks ago....we were talking and she forced me to look in her eyes while she told me this.. "he is an asshole, he is using you and you aren't seeing it....wake up...you may think he is good...but good people NEVER say things like that". Scoop - it is brainwashing, isn't it? It is the only reason that can explain why we dont' run from it immediately and still love them.
May 9 - 3PM (Reply to #13)
Scoop
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Loveofmylife

Yes it is brain washing .They break you down then build you up , break you down rince and repeat . IT IS ABUSE ...It is up to us to put up the boundrys and say no more they will not stop as they get off on power and control , they love it ,it is the air they breath .When they are being nice to you it is fake , when they are shaming and belittling you that is the real them . They say its all for your own good and they are just being honest because they are an honest person that is "just who i am " ... when they say that what you need to say is "FUCK OFF ".... Sorry for the F**k OFF but you know what i mean , shutters up , end of , do not engage , no contact . I have broken no contact sooo many times because the "nice guy " turns up . It takes a while but if you stick at it you will start to see him for what he is , I personaly would like a few minutes to give your prick of a narc a piece of my mind . Scoop x Scoop x
May 8 - 5PM (Reply to #9)
Susan32
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"Teaching you a lesson"

My ex-N said all the cruel things he was doing and saying was "to teach me a lesson." I was vindicated when I read one of the blog posts which says that if you confess your love to a Narc, get ready for a power play. He wanted the power play. He didn't let up, even when I told him that a close friend of mine had died from cancer... he continued humiliating me (one of his colleagues was at this friend's funeral) Between the verbal abuse, the D&D, finding out about the girlfriend, the friend's passing from cancer... it was one blow after another... FINALLY I told him that a GOOD teacher wouldn't humiliate his students;that a GOOD teacher wouldn't lie. It didn't register. That same blank, emotionless look.
May 8 - 10PM (Reply to #10)
happydaysahead
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Well

Mine was doing it to punish me, he said. I'm thinking punish me for what ?? Being human ?? Having feelings ??
May 9 - 8PM (Reply to #12)
Susan32
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Read Barbara's blog

Barbara says it right at her blog about abuse. She says a common trait of psychopaths is: How dare you say "Ouch, I'm hurt" How dare you be human How dare you tell the truth My ex-N was punishing me for having feelings, for being human. He was handsome--shouldn't he have seen it as natural that some students (male and female) would be smitten with him? He struck me as a guy who reveres his own teachers to the point of rendering them like the perfect, unpained Greek gods. I mean, he's vegetarian because one of his profs is vegetarian. Yeah, I respect my teachers--but they're humans.
May 8 - 11PM (Reply to #11)
Barbara (not verified)
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teesme2000

because they GET OFF on hurting people that's why its for their OWN BENEFIT ~~~~~~~~~ Moving Forward: Coaching for Victims Pathologicals Feelings buried alive never die. - Alice Miller
May 7 - 11PM
happydaysahead
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I feel the same

But from what I read here, just them being them is karma. They will never be happy, they will never experience real love. God does care. I firmly believe that. You quoted Bible verses that show that. Just takes time. I believe that what goes around comes around and somehow, someway they will get their's. In time, we can move on and find someone who truly loves us for us. The N's will never move on. They are stuck in some time warp or something. They will never feel what we will feel. And as far as the other woman, do you really think she will get anything beter from him ?? They may seem happy now, but eventually when his mask slips, she will get the same junk you got !! That alone makes me feel justice will be served.
May 8 - 12AM (Reply to #2)
Susan32
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Finding healing

I'm very cautious right now. I'm "just friends" right now with an older man,who's about the same age as my ex-N (AND a professor's son) He's been very kind so far... he likes it that I'm happy. He doesn't constantly criticize me, and there's humility. I'm just hoping it isn't all a mask... "Will she get anything better from him?"-That's why I feel sickened. He put me through Hell... she struck me as a decent person... as a long-lost twin sister in a sense... and no way in Hell would I wish on her what he did to me...
May 9 - 10PM (Reply to #3)
James (not verified)
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Galaxy Song

Thanks Klarity Belle for sharing this article on NPD and how some see it as a moral problem more so then a psychological one. Another thing is how when I read all the post and comments here I see how so many people are drawing from their spiritual strengths. I see people much like the triangle of the three much like God the father Christ the son and the holy spirit. We too have the sided three of being. Our physical bodies the psychological (mind) and our spiritual being. We must have and use all three to be a complete person. Without all three sides we are but a part of the whole and not completely whole of the sum. Much like a mathematic equation. Well math is the universal language too all nations and it’s people. Is this the dysfunctional pathological person whenever part of this equation is uncompleted? Does this explain the moral bankrupted pathological person and one that knows good but choose to do evil? What happens whenever a person does not complete themselves and unitizes all three sides of the whole? Is this what interested me so about pathological people and what we might find there? Questions questions and then more questions will follow... Anyway it lightens my soul too see other members accepting and understanding how their spiritual side is just as important as their physical and psychological being. Whenever we see how we are all part of the whole and not the center of the universe we then see how we are whole of the part and a part of that wonderful growing expanding universe full of miracles and great knowledge. Whenever a person comes to a point that they know everything is the day they know nothing. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=buqtdpuZxvk