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#1 Apr 27 - 6AM
loveofmylife
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Chapstick/Lip Gloss

Ok, this was a funny little survey we had going on another thread....but would love to take an official survey....

Does your N obsessively put on chapstick or lip gloss?

A little subliminal sexual indicator that they actually do to everyone?

Of course, to do it properly, they must apply it slowly while locking eyes with you!

Apr 28 - 8PM
Introspection
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Chapstick...

but as far as I can recall, he wasn't looking into my eyes when applying....it probably has to do more with vanity for my xN...
Apr 28 - 8PM
loveofmylife
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Wow

So this is really weird. Because of all of the normal people I have dated and have friended in my life, this is the only one that does chapstick constantly and the only N. Do the others of you see the same correlation? Did your normal boyfriends/friends do this obsessively????
Apr 28 - 1PM
narcnarcwhosthere (not verified)
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ACKKKKK.......

YES!!...he was always smearing his lips with that gooey stuff...not chapstick but the more liquidy stuff....as a matter of fact...when he was laying there dying he asked me to bring him a tube...... and i thought it was just him!!...i've never used that stuff and now i never will....my lips can dry up and fall off and i won't use it.......
Apr 27 - 7PM
woundedsoul36
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yes mine too. Infact, his

yes mine too. Infact, his and his victims lips were very important to him. He liked them full and moist looking.
Apr 27 - 7PM
loveofmylife
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From the other thread

So I think we are at 8 now? Suzy Chapstick Mon, 04/26/2010 - 12:26 — seancunningham I used to refer to mine as Suzy Chapstick. Used it constantly. Told N I should buy stock in the company!! Ok, now it's getting really scary!!! Login or register to post comments Chapstick Mon, 04/26/2010 - 11:36 — foolmeonce Yep - the ex N loves chapstick - puts it on constantly!!!!! Login or register to post comments
Apr 27 - 6PM
Heart
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No chapstick,or gloss, but

No chapstick,or gloss, but tons of moisturizer. Also, monthly facials!! What is that all about? Pure vanity?
Apr 27 - 7PM (Reply to #8)
woundedsoul36
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mine was obsessed with

mine was obsessed with lotion and was always moisturizing. maybe this all stems from the "latent homosexuality" most N's are supposed to be.
Apr 27 - 7AM
gullablegull (not verified)
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Chap stick

YES! Constantly! He always has his chap stick... another thing he has done, and I've also had another one do....is they will give you a drink, except when you reach for it, they hold the drink until you lock eyes when them. Very seductive.
Apr 27 - 10AM (Reply to #6)
loveofmylife
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Chapstick

Yes, my 50 year old N had chapstick in his hand all day long and would apply it EVERY SINGLE time I talked to him - at least 10 times/day. Of course, the locking of eyes, so that I thought it was a sign to me. OMG and yes, the drink. He was actually very sweet...he would always pour my drink first at the table. Wait for me to have the glass in my hand before he would drink and then lock eyes with me while drinking. In my naivety I thought these were signs to me..... and I'm sure so did the other dozen girls that week.
Apr 27 - 9AM (Reply to #2)
Nothanx
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Chapstick

OMG, OMG, OMG...Mine would freak out and have to go home or to the store to get his chapstick. I would never have associated that with NPD, I just thought he had a dry lip problem. I did think maybe he developed the dry lips from being obsessive about chapstick. When I hugged him I would joke "is that Chapstick in your pocket or are you just glad to see me?". He also used hand sanitizer like it was going out of style and was addicted to sniffing it. He told me he even went on line to see if other people were addicted to sniffing hand sanitizer. He is soooo weird!!! I think it is amazing how similar they all are (in some way or another).
Apr 27 - 7PM (Reply to #5)
Nothanx
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lotion

I forgot he was also obsessed with lotion (hands and feet several times a day).
Apr 27 - 4PM (Reply to #3)
hope4me
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chapstick

That is too weird. Mine always had chapstick too. I could never figure it out, summer, winter, fall, spring, always chapstick. What is it with these weirdos????
Apr 28 - 1PM (Reply to #4)
miinx
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yep.. mine too. ALWAYS the

yep.. mine too. ALWAYS the tube of cherry chapstick in his pocket with the label neatly peeled off. constantly reapplied several times a day. once he forgot to take it out of his pocket when he gave me his dirty clothes and i washed it by accident... i've never seen a grown man throw such a hissy fit over such a small, insignifigant item.